New to the scene - How do you politely decline service upon arrival?

[curvluvr]

Don’t feel bad. Just say you’ll come back another time. You’re not obligated to stay.

I do it all the time.

I've met lineups at the higher end MP's many times, and have probably walked out more times than I've stayed.
My usual line is, "I'll come back another time." If the receptionist asks why, I just say that I didn't see anyone that caught my eye.
I never go to AMP's, but even at the lower end spas where there might be one or two EE ladies, I say the same thing.

It's pretty rare that the MPA or receptionist will get more aggressive in their sales tactic, or show you attitude that you've decided to walk.
I find that at the higher end spas, the receptionist will be very gracious, sometimes even saying something like "drop by any time".

I personally wouldn't walk out on an incall SP. I feel like I'm already committed at the moment that I knock on the door. That's the chances you take for an SP that you haven't met in person beforehand.

 

[sy barite]

I personally wouldn't walk out on an incall SP. I feel like I'm already committed at the moment that I knock on the door. That's the chances you take for an SP that you haven't met in person beforehand.

You're quite the tolerant guy. I've found the reverse to be true for me. I usually stay at the MP as I tend to know beforehand exactly what I'm getting and more often pass on the SP, who has basically lied by posting a false ad. I feel no commitment to someone who's wasted my time.

 

[xtc27]

I've met lineups at the higher end MP's many times, and have probably walked out more times than I've stayed.
My usual line is, "I'll come back another time." If the receptionist asks why, I just say that I didn't see anyone that caught my eye.
I never go to AMP's, but even at the lower end spas where there might be one or two EE ladies, I say the same thing.

It's pretty rare that the MPA or receptionist will get more aggressive in their sales tactic, or show you attitude that you've decided to walk.
I find that at the higher end spas, the receptionist will be very gracious, sometimes even saying something like "drop by any time".

I personally wouldn't walk out on an incall SP. I feel like I'm already committed at the moment that I knock on the door. That's the chances you take for an SP that you haven't met in person beforehand.

So, Indy SPs u stay no matter what…. ?

I once responded to an ad promising cute lil Asian spinner & a 6 ft trannie answered the door… wondered WTF post a pic looks nuthin like person behind the door?

Now I no. U would a stayed. Nice.

 

[curvluvr]

You're quite the tolerant guy. I've found the reverse to be true for me. I usually stay at the MP as I tend to know beforehand exactly what I'm getting and more often pass on the SP, who has basically lied by posting a false ad. I feel no commitment to someone who's wasted my time.

I guess I've been relatively lucky with SP's. I've heard too many LL stories to want to try someone who only advertises on LL.
By the time I'm knocking at an SP's door, I've already done enough homework to know that the pictures on her website/twitter/other are real, and that there's no B&S.
The only surprises might be anything that the pictures don't show (face, extra weight gain, change of hair, etc.), and I can live with that. So that's why I've always stayed when seeing an SP (at least so far).

 

[curvluvr]

So, Indy SPs u stay no matter what…. ?

I once responded to an ad promising cute lil Asian spinner & a 6 ft trannie answered the door… wondered WTF post a pic looks nuthin like person behind the door?

Now I no. U would a stayed. Nice.

You're absolutely right. I definitely wouldn't stay for a 6' trannie.
I guess I've dodged a lot of tough situations by only seeing providers who are reviewed and either don't advertise on LL or have more than just a LL ad. That has helped me avoid the situation that you describe.

 

[xtc27]

You're absolutely right. I definitely wouldn't stay for a 6' trannie.
I guess I've dodged a lot of tough situations by only seeing providers who are reviewed and either don't advertise on LL or have more than just a LL ad. That has helped me avoid the situation that you describe.

Generally my modus operandi 2… kj actually promoted it yrs ago… new incall by one of his fave mpas… nvr said he WENT there, just that its hers, shes gd @ oral, mebbe she or another friend’r there…

Holy sh!t… I had a gd laff tho… taught me a few things … promotion ≠ endorsement ≠ review

But… gonna run like hell outta anyplace regardless of anything else if something like that answers the door!