Question I'm 25 years old, brand new to the scene. I've got lots of questions, and I hope you guys can show me the ropes. (STDs, undercover cops, etc.)

[luvnewpussy]

If your looking for a girlfriend..this is not the place. If your looking for someone to cuddle and love this is not the place.if your looking for a way to save your money ..this is not the place.

If you want to see a hot naked girl to get your rocks off. This is the place

 

[snoopdoggie]

If your looking for a girlfriend..this is not the place. If your looking for someone to cuddle and love this is not the place.if your looking for a way to save your money ..this is not the place.

If you want to see a hot naked girl to get your rocks off. This is the place

These directions are way better than a GPS system.

 

[snoopdoggie]

I’m kinda surprised so many folks have commented on this thread, even though OP has yet to respond to any of the suggestions. That said, the post was full of earnestness and it’s good to see folks lending a helping hand (or at least trying to).

After reading all the replies so far, I think @Jimchiu hit the mark closest in terms of assessing the big picture, though others also understood that the OP might not be like ‘us’ in some ways.

To the OP, I hope you don’t feel burdened by being a virgin at 25 or the loneliness you feel in your life. You are still young and there is so much to live for yet.

If all you truly want is to find an Asian lady to hug, or maybe have a fuller physical connection with, and you really do not mind that it is all a facade facilitated by money, then by all means, follow the advice from @Hornet, though I would suggest starting with only a massage and not even thinking about ‘extras’. After one or more sessions, if you develop greater comfort with the massage parlour environment, the attendant(s) and the experience, then you could try a reciprocal physical connection and go from there.

My gut feeling though is that you will not find what you are ultimately looking for, which I believe is something closer to an emotional connection. What I’m saying is that despite you claiming you don’t mind the fakeness of the experience, you wouldn’t know if that’s the case until you have actually gone through with it, and there’s as good a chance this hobby will make you feel even lonelier than before as it has to make you feel better about yourself and life. You won’t find empathy at a massage parlour. Yes, many attendants are actually really nice people but they will not risk their own emotional state to feel for you.

So if I may ask, have you looked for help and counsel for your issues elsewhere? I will not presume anything but will just say that there could be people out there who are better qualified to assist you than someone at a massage parlour.

At least he is isn't a 40 year old virgin, like the guy in that movie.

 

[praetor]

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My gut feeling though is that you will not find what you are ultimately looking for, which I believe is something closer to an emotional connection. What I’m saying is that despite you claiming you don’t mind the fakeness of the experience, you wouldn’t know if that’s the case until you have actually gone through with it, and there’s as good a chance this hobby will make you feel even lonelier than before as it has to make you feel better about yourself and life. You won’t find empathy at a massage parlour. Yes, many attendants are actually really nice people but they will not risk their own emotional state to feel for you.
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This is great advice, and I completely agree. Reading the OP's post, I also got the impression that he's suffering from a void that cannot simply be filled by visiting an SP or an MPA, no matter how wild. In fact, without addressing this first, vising SPs/MPAs could exacerbate these feelings of loneliness or inadequacy and worsen any underlying mental health issues.

My honest advice in this regard, which is not related to the OP's question, is to 1) seek therapy if possible, and 2) try dating and forming a real relationship with a woman, whose love will provide the kind of warmth you're looking for. You will not find this in the cold hallways of a Spa.

Regarding your actual question, here's my best advice:

- If you're worried about legitimacy, then you should start with licensed body rub parlours. They're more established and they have laws regulating how and where they operate. Many of the girls there can even offer FS (you can search what that means on this forum) on second or third visits, although that's not usually guaranteed. Many of the posts in this forum compare and contrast all these differences between the spas. It's sketchier when it comes to agencies/SPs/holistics, and unless you've done your homework or know connections in that world, I'd stay away, for now.
- Watch your wallet: this hobby can be addicting, and it can definitely ruin you financially if you're not careful.
- Watch your wallet: there are standard rates for many of the "extra" services that are offered between you and the MPA. You should not be spending 300+ for something that usually costs half of that, unless of course you're a generous tipper.

After your first successful visit, you should invite everyone here for drinks.

Actually, after thinking about this I'd advice against it, but I can settle for a thank-you. Good luck!