Sex in Tokyo

[Sarah Atkinson]

Just to make sure...

1 over 500 you mean only freebies or that's including the ones you paid ?

 

[Not now]

Are you seriously saying you walked streets all evenings with main motivation approaching hundreds of women ???

I'm not sure Nampa is funny afterall.

I hope dude you were doing something else at the same time.
Like touristic visit or shopping and if you see a cute girl talk to her.
But since you said approching hundreds of women a week... I mean... what were you doing ? Standing somewhere with a map pretending you are lost and talk to has many women has possible ? Maybe I don't understand...

If you really did that for a long period of time, for hundreds of hours, approched thousands of Jwomen while being an expat in Tokyo...

...you know what you shoul do ? Write a book ! Seriously !
That most be a pretty unique experience for a Gaijin !

Do many Japanese man do that ?

You are a brave man doing all that just to fuck once a week.
I don't think my ego can take 599 NO for a cumshot...

 

[wag mayonsE]

Not sure of exact numbers 500 or more per fuck was only a guess, I never really kept track but this is my nampa experience. I used to go to central Tokyo almost every night after work and on weekends to play nampa. I would average one new Jgirl per week. It was hard work, walking around nearly every night till the last train home (but I lost a lot of weight and got fit from all that walking) only the 29 and over were free but theyoung ones I paid for were a lot better value than going to some Yakuza owned brothel. Remember though I was 10 years older than you and as myself and other posters have said before it is hard to get a Jgirl more than 5 years your junior and very hardto get one 10 years or more younger unless you pay, and even then its hard from nampa. Im not saying nampa is magic but I found it the best method in Japan. I never got a single fuck in Roppongi or from any Japanese bar, but I wasted a lot of time, got teased a lot by young Jgirls there and spent a fortune on beer. Japan is a lot easier than Australia to find quality pussy, but that isnt saying much, Australian women have enormous balls and are mostly fat and ugly. Australia obviously has a lot going for it (if it did not it would not attract so many immigrants) but it is a wasteland for getting quality pussy if you are over 30 and not a millionaire. I said Japan was better than Oz, it certainly does not compare to Thailand, PI, China or even Taiwan or Indonesia.

 

[Aiden]

You just killed my enthusiasm !

Maybe it's not that hard but let's just think about it quickly:

Let's say 600 girls approached for 1 fuck.
Let's say I work fast and flirt one every minute.
Non stop.
That's 600 minutes.
That's 10 hours !!!

Are you sure that's what you mean ?

 

[??Sophie??]

Yes Xelasin that is the website. I had to pay for every girl I had younger than 29 and I had them as young as 18, but I am 40 and you are 29 so you can easily get the 18-30 Jgirls.
I paid alot of young Jgirls I picked up from nampa, but you have to be a little subtle, take them to starbucks first (the only decent coffee in Japan). Once you have paid one they usually have friends who need money too. I never paid any who wereolder than early 20s. It is surprising how many young Jgirls need money, they live at home and so dont go hungry but they earn usually 800-1000 yen per hour which is practically nothing.
Nampa in groups is practiced a lot by young Japanese dudes. The thing with nampa is that most girls will ignore you but if you keep trying you will score but you have to approach maybe 500 to 1000 for every one you get, but with the numbers in central tokyo this isa lot easier than it looks. I reiterate NEVER talk to a girl carrying a Luis Veitton handbag, she is an Ojyousama, you want the young girl who does not own such a handbag and will willingly prostitute herself to get one.
I went to love hotels because myapartment was so small andfar out on the edges of Tokyo, a long train ride from the nampa hunting grounds, I took some 30s Jgirls to my apartment but the 18 -20 y/o that I paid after picking them up with nampa I didnt want to give them the chance to change their mind on the way home and often they were not willing to go to my home anyway, but once I had them for the first night the ones I was willing to pay again (only the enthusiastic ones, quite a few were not enthusiasticand I didnt wantthese again). You must remember that Christianity has never had any influence in modern Japan so they feel no guilt about having sex and money is the god in Japan, 20 000 yen is a lotof money for a 20 y/o waitress.
Regular hotels are more costly than love hotels and the rooms are smaller

 

[Lynette]

http://www.metropolis.co.jp/default.asp

Is that the website you talked about Ozgaijin ?
It's related to "Japan Today" so just want to make sure it's the right one.



That's exactly the kind of information I need !
You are the greatest info source for Japan man !!!

What would you say is the % of girls you needed to pay playing Nampa ?
(streets, Starbucks or whatever...)
From the comments you made, it would be interesting to get the statistics for 18-30yo and 30+ separatly. What I understand is you paid all the 18-30 or got just HJ for free...

And what would you say was your succes rate in your Nampa player career ? Play that in groups sometimes ? lol

And why does it look like it always end up in Love Motels ?
If you take her to a regular hotel or your appartment is it ok or they feel more comfortable in love motels ?
Sorry, many questions... lol

 

[Random R]

Have you been to Tokyo before? If not your biggest problem will be finding youre way around.Taxis are not only expensive but the drivers often dont know their way around. Finding your way is more difficult if you dont speak Japanese and (like me when I first went to Tokyo) have never been to a really huge city before. Tokyo is far more crowded than any US or European city. You should look up the Tokyo Metropolis classifieds, this is Tokyo's weekly English speaking magazine avaidable online, just do a google search and click on the classifieds, many amaeturs and thinly veiled pros advertize here.Even if you dont fancy thelady you meet she can help you find your way around.
Like you I am in my 40s and this certainly makes finding twentysomething gals for free more difficult, but much less so than in the west, men of our age still have a fighting chance in Tokyo. If like me you are overweight this is also much less of a disadvaneforum.xxxe in Japan. A good tip is to dress well, while Aussie gals like muscular suntanned tatooed bodybuilder type guys wearing singlets this type of guy would terrify the average Japanese gal, who is typically more impressed with a good suit than bulging biceps and a washboard waist.
The bar scene is not good in Tokyo, the bars are very small, drinks expensive and if you have paid a covercharge to get in you usually cant leaveand come back shortly afterwards as is the case here in Oz.There are 2 basic types of bars/nightclubs which interest us. The first is thegaijin bar common in Roppongi, Ebisu, Shibuya andother gaijin frequented areas. These are free to enter since resident gaijin are rarely prepared to pay the 3000 yen covercharge usual in discos which Japanese frequent. Many Japanese ladies go to gaijin bars and virtually all speak good English. These are a good option for a younger man but not for us since most resident gaijin are in their20sor early 30s so we are competing against chaps 20 years our junior. Then there are the nightspots frequented by young Japanese which charge a 3000 yen cover charge which usually includes 1 drink, however onceinside the drinks are often cheaper than gaijin bars so if you like to drink they can be a good option. The advaneforum.xxxe here is that you will probably be the only gaijin there and many Jgirls will be happy to talk to you.The disadvaneforum.xxxe is that few speak Englishso your Japanese has to be good.
Your best chance is playing the popular Japanese sport of Nanpa, which means chatting up girls on the street, be prepared for plenty of rejection but unlike in the west you will never be berated by feminazis, throw enough mudand some will stick, there are just such huge numbers of pretty girls in Tokyo that you will do very well if you persist. I have scored far more this way than in bars, which are all small and so have limited numbersof girls. Starbucks and shoppingmalls are excellent options, many English speaking gals frequent Starbucks. Dont be afraid to offer money in a tactful way to the 20 yearold gal you meet in Starbucks, this has worked for me plenty of times, young people in Japan earn fuck all, the typical waitress in her early 20s is only earning 800-1000 yen per hour and unlike US waitresses these poor girls dont receive tips, nobody tips in Japan. I suggest an offer of 20 000 yen all night or10 000 yen for a 2 hour lovehotel stay. Dont be afraid to use love hotels, they are spotlessly clean and relatively cheap. I hope this helps, good luck.

p.s. Being a black man is no disadvaneforum.xxxe in Japan as it is in China.

 

[Beetle-[Mania]]

As a matter of fact, the bar scene may very well work (at least give it a shot). Nowadays, most of the action is in Nishi-Kawaguchi (Saitama). Have a look at the tokyo pink guide website for info and price ranges. Happy hunting.

cnote

 

[broken angel]

Going to spend a weekend in Tokyo in January. Looking for somewhere to go. I'm middle aged so the bar scene probably won't work. Any tips will be appreciated.