Chat Can you trust spa girls...

[startbeforeIfinish]

I just had another thought on the issue

Most people, men and women, are generally decent. However there are a fair number on each side that are not. In the course of 'normal' relationships the average person will perhaps run across a few bad apples but will generally not be affected that much

However when you multiply that by 100 (or by 1000 in the case of popular girls) of men that an mpa has a 'relationship' with the number of bad apples they know skyrockets. Protecting themselves against these bad apples becomes instinctive and the norm, even when dealing with the aforementioned mostly decent guys. And I'll bet that some of the 'decent' guys also turn out to be not-so-decent when the 'relationship' sours

tbh I can't say I blame them

That is true if you are just talking relationships but it is undeniably a transaction and different rules apply. I must sound like a jerk but they are laughing to the bank. Even as a transaction these guys will drive you crazy especially setting up deals over the phone. Lying is a habit and some are better than others. You make a good point but I can not be always sympathetic because I have to keep my guard up. I am doing so good with a regular that is at very least a friend I must admit I am less cynical.

 

[nail1988]

That is true if you are just talking relationships but it is undeniably a transaction and different rules apply. I must sound like a jerk but they are laughing to the bank. Even as a transaction these guys will drive you crazy especially setting up deals over the phone. Lying is a habit and some are better than others. You make a good point but I can not be always sympathetic because I have to keep my guard up. I am doing so good with a regular that is at very least a friend I must admit I am less cynical.

My regular is the real friend of mine. She is the only person that I can talk to and get emotional support

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

My regular is the real friend of mine. She is the only person that I can talk to and get emotional support

Mine is so good at friendship we are always giving favors back and forth and she has been an angel in my life. That being said at best I am a suiter she is seeing other guys and I can see other girls just not her friends. The highlight reel of kind things she has done for me would be a 10 hour documentary.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

same to me. The connection itself so so deep. She encourages me to see others ladies cause she can not give me more than friendship but I just can't.We are helping each other.see each other a lot but it's hard. So thre are honest people in this industry

It is not how mine has never lied or tried to take advantage but it is complicated and overall her level of honesty has been so refreshing. She is good at relationships. She is not all great at me seeing other girls but I told her otherwise I feel like a cuckold.

 

[Darke Steele]

The previous 5 posts on this thread have to be a joke.....

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

The previous 5 posts on this thread have to be a joke.....

Suit yourself bigshot We have mixed it up efore and you need to know your bragging rights are not exactly bragging rights little guy.

 

[LoveSpaGirls]

Mine is so good at friendship we are always giving favors back and forth and she has been an angel in my life. That being said at best I am a suiter she is seeing other guys and I can see other girls just not her friends. The highlight reel of kind things she has done for me would be a 10 hour documentary.

My regular is the real friend of mine. She is the only person that I can talk to and get emotional support

Like I said before: "The delusion runs deep on this thread"...

"an angel in my life" OMFG! You have a totally different concept of ANGEL my friend, sorry to say. What you're getting is an ANGLE!

"I can see other girls just not her friends" FFS! Really! I can only imagine the conversation between her and the other MPAs in their little rest/lunch/hangout room. Meanwhile she's probably laughing at you while she is telling her fav about the idiot she is controlling...

Both of you need to be cognizant of the fact you are paying these girls. They are providing a service/services, sexual and/or psychological.

If you are seeing them outside of the Spa or where they are providing service, maybe there is something approximating a relationship of some sort, tenuous at best I would suggest.

If you need or want to get the services of a sex worker you must remember - even though you are being physically intimate, YOU MUST NOT LET IT BECOME EMOTIONALLY INTIMATE. You will regret it at some point...

 

[ReedIckulous]

I think someone else might have said this before but I think most of them are incapable of having a trusting relationship. I think they used the word broken.

Many of the guys are not really unbroken either.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Like I said before: "The delusion runs deep on this thread"...

"an angel in my life" OMFG! You have a totally different concept of ANGEL my friend, sorry to say. What you're getting is an ANGLE!

"I can see other girls just not her friends" FFS! Really! I can only imagine the conversation between her and the other MPAs in their little rest/lunch/hangout room. Meanwhile she's probably laughing at you while she is telling her fav about the idiot she is controlling...

Both of you need to be cognizant of the fact you are paying these girls. They are providing a service/services, sexual and/or psychological.

If you are seeing them outside of the Spa or where they are providing service, maybe there is something approximating a relationship of some sort, tenuous at best I would suggest.

If you need or want to get the services of a sex worker you must remember - even though you are being physically intimate, YOU MUST NOT LET IT BECOME EMOTIONALLY INTIMATE. You will regret it at some point...

Just saying she has pretty fucking nice and more of a real person than you are probably used to. Still a prostitute. I am not some green wet behind the ears guy. Unlike alot of you shills my message is buyer beware. My other point is I outmatch any of you guys so spare me punk. Yeah you know the ways of the world. You gotta know I don't love spas they are weakass whores.

 

[OG_funguy]

Mine is so good at friendship we are always giving favors back and forth and she has been an angel in my life. That being said at best I am a suiter she is seeing other guys and I can see other girls just not her friends. The highlight reel of kind things she has done for me would be a 10 hour documentary.

We have time...I'm interested in hearing some of the things she does for you

 

[LoveSpaGirls]

Just saying she has pretty fucking nice and more of a real person than you are probably used to. Still a prostitute. I am not some green wet behind the ears guy. Unlike alot of you shills my message is buyer beware. My other point is I outmatch any of you guys so spare me punk. Yeah you know the ways of the world. You gotta know I don't love spas they are weakass whores.

Shill? Really?

Why so nasty? I assume we are all trying to help each other out here.

This isn't a contest either, my friend. Calm down.

You don't like my comment, address it without insulting me.

And the name calling? Typical tactic of someone unable to defend their position with a logical response...

Also, I don't profess to be anything. I've made the mistakes that I am addressing and have the scars.

Think whatever you want, but you made the original comment, not me.

Also this: "You gotta know I don't love spas they are weakass whores."

More insults - and - to your Angel???

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

We have time...I'm interested in hearing some of the things she does for you

She visited me brought food cooked after home from 6hr operation during snowstorm. Cooked many good meal for me and such. I know it is just fodder for you guys and I just do not like how some of these guys set the tone and I really can back up anything I say. It is true she must like a good customer but she is very capable of being nice unlike many. I may come off like a jerk but I am not the only jerk around here. I know it is neither here nor there just mentioning I am not entirely cynical about these girls I am the one who said "All whores lie"

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Shill? Really?

Why so nasty? I assume we are all trying to help each other out here.

This isn't a contest either, my friend. Calm down.

You don't like my comment, address it without insulting me.

And the name calling? Typical tactic of someone unable to defend their position with a logical response...

Also, I don't profess to be anything. I've made the mistakes that I am addressing and have the scars.

Think whatever you want, but you made the original comment, not me.

Also this: "You gotta know I don't love spas they are weakass whores."

More insults - and - to your Angel???

Just saying "your a scrub"

 

[Johnjoebowler]

Any relationship outside of the spa with one of these ladies no matter how nice they may be, will end in disaster.

Been there done that......a few times. I won't even exchange #s anymore.

Those involved currently are either being used under the guise of friendship for convenience or, if the lady does actually like them romantically, will have rough consequences.

There will NEVER be a fairy book ending.

End of story!

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Any relationship outside of the spa with one of these ladies no matter how nice they may be, will end in disaster.

Been there done that......a few times. I won't even exchange #s anymore.

Those involved currently are either being used under the guise of friendship for convenience or, if the lady does actually like them romantically, will have rough consequences.

There will NEVER be a fairy book ending.

End of story!

I know. That is true. Just take it for what it is. Still quid pro quo and I like it.

 

[Johnjoebowler]

I know. That is true. Just take it for what it is. Still quid pro quo and I like it.

Enjoy while you can and protect yourself accordingly.

 

[Social-Misfit]

The previous 5 posts on this thread have to be a joke.....

Right!

 

[Rupert Redrooster]

The previous 5 posts on this thread have to be a joke.....

The next 5 aren’t much better. Lol!

 

[OG_funguy]

Recently I found out an MPA I'm very fond of found a boyfriend a few months ago. I heard this from another girl (she never told me this herself), I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a bit sad to hear this.

However, during all this time, all the things we did in the room never changed. So just goes to show if you end up dating one of these girls, more than likely she will continue to provide her close customers with the same service as before...

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Right!

To each his own. I was being honest. Glass houses. I think you guys are better at making a purse out of a sows ear which I do not at whether I can or can't so I am just standing pat and smelling the roses. The joke is which is true that I am overly trusting working girls. I am not just going to bun it up hopelessly at not needing to know them at all, just not a part of my experience. Times are slimmer and happy with less of a headache type of girl anyhow. I will keep trying but I am not enjoying the koolaid with the majority of spa girls lately. So the point of my posts was if I can't spend good money at a somewhat guarantee of a good time why bother and stay with someone nice, I do not trust these girls are that worthwhile even at good sex so a half decent is an angel, I am a little laid up and have a bucket list they are not all bad. You guys like them more but I am not getting it. It is interesting on me not to be to much of an idiotic keyboard warrior, otherwise I am just trying to expand the conversation. Do not know where you guys are coming from and I KNOW it takes all kinds. Gotta check myself too. If the attitude I was getting was jealous I get that. I got alot of guys DMing me trying to find the half decent girls I am into.