Hi Hum
£35 per hour is very good value. Your massage therapist actually charging less than the going rate and I think maybe there is a lack of understanding in what she is paying out of the money she charges.
Let's take a look at how it breaks down and then you decide whether or not she can afford to give you a discount:
Room rates are around £10 per hour which, if she doesn't lease her room permanently, she will have to pay whether or not she has a client. If she has a lease, she has to pay rent on it whether or not she is busy with clients.
She will have done at least one course to qualify and has to do Continuing Professional Development - say £1,000 per year (probably more).
Laundry - all those towels, with oils on them have to be specially cleaned after every client. 3 towels per client, say 3 clients per day = 8 towels - you do the math.
Oils, even if they are not aromatherapy oils, are also a cost - oils for massage cannot just be bought off the shelf at the supermarket and a massage therapist uses a *lot* of oil at premium prices to ensure they won't give clients a rash (or worse)
Uniforms have to be bought and laundered. Several have to be kept in order that a clean oil free uniform is available at all times.
If she has a lease, she will have to be paying for heating (which has to be a particular temperature in order to keep the client warm), lighting and the odd cup of tea
She may also be paying towards advertising with other therapists within a practice, which is not cheap
Massage table and massage chair - and maintenance
Marketing costs - how did you find your massage therapist? A small ad in Yellow Pages for a year is £300+, printing costs for flyers, brochures and business cards
Insurance
Subscription to professional organisation
Accountant - self employed persons need to submit accounts to the Inland Revenue
Tax
When all those costs are taken out of the £35 she charges, she is probably taking home between £5-£10, if she's lucky.
If she were to give a discount, it would come out of that £5-10 which she gets to live on, because the other costs are fixed.
I think, because you need the massage, you feel it should be free at the point of service, like the NHS. I agree with you - it should. However, the NHS doesn't supply therapies like massage and so they come at a price.
Fx