Question Seeking Arrangement?

[sy barite]

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To each there own, but I would never pay and definitely never pay $400 to bang a milf. Just got to any bar in the suburbs on a friday night and you could easily take one home for free.

True, but then the ol' Charile Sheen maxim applies.

 

[hookerpuncher]

Side note; always funny when you see your mutual friends or acquaintances on the site. So that's how you're paying for stuff eh haha

I saw my friends younger sister on the site before she cancelled. That would have been awkward if we met.

 

[PTown]

There was a great and very lengthy thread on TERB about using Seeking Arrangements that got taken down (by the mods), pre-covid, I believe it was. Lots of great insights/stories/experiences and tips on there, but now gone.

Also known as the “Sugar-Bowl”, where the Sugar-Daddies go to find the Sugar-Babies and vice-versa.

Key-points for the hobbyist that I recall were:

1) It takes A LOT of time and effort BUT the payoff can be absolutely incredible.
2) Always do PPM (Pay Per Meet). Never agree to any sort of allowance.
3) NEVER EVER send money to a girl beforehand under any circumstance.
4) Be prepared to be ghosted many times (there will be many “a swing and a miss” types before you land a good hit, let alone a homerun).
5) Take the conversation offsite asap. (Never solicit there)

There were a lot of detailed reasons behind these points that I won’t go into and frankly just don’t recall exactly, beyond the obvious.

Average PPM quoted at the time was 200-400ish. Usually got you a few hours that could go well into the night when things went well.

While that particular thread was pretty valuable to any hobbyist looking to dip into the Sugar-Bowl, I recall some independent SP coming in there and blasting it, also showing a link to a site for Sugar-Babies, which basically tried to teach them how to fleece guys on the site. So, like, do the opposite of the points above, like never agree to PPM always go for allowance. How to target & milk the Whales, etc.

Right now, I would guess, like the Spa scene the Sugar-Bowl pickings are likely filled w/ Piranhas.

That aside, it can also be a GREAT tool for setting up options for those hobbyists who travel abroad. Say you’re doing a hobbying trip in Medellin, Colombia? (When travel normalizes or whenever) Well Seeking.com can be a good tool to use to get some connections for possible options to hook-up with when there (really hot and intensely sexual young ladies (you'll feel like their 'novio' for that night) for a fraction of the prices paid here). I’ve heard of great success stories using it in this way.

It's definitely for those who have the desire, resources, time, patience and acumen to navigate it properly.

 

[hookerpuncher]

There was a great and very lengthy thread on TERB about using Seeking Arrangements that got taken down (by the mods), pre-covid, I believe it was. Lots of great insights/stories/experiences and tips on there, but now gone.

Also known as the “Sugar-Bowl”, where the Sugar-Daddies go to find the Sugar-Babies and vice-versa.

Key-points for the hobbyist that I recall were:

1) It takes A LOT of time and effort BUT the payoff can be absolutely incredible.
2) Always do PPM (Pay Per Meet). Never agree to any sort of allowance.
3) NEVER EVER send money to a girl beforehand under any circumstance.
4) Be prepared to be ghosted many times (there will be many “a swing and a miss” types before you land a good hit, let alone a homerun).
5) Take the conversation offsite asap. (Never solicit there)

There were a lot of detailed reasons behind these points that I won’t go into and frankly just don’t recall exactly, beyond the obvious.

Average PPM quoted at the time was 200-400ish. Usually got you a few hours that could go well into the night when things went well.

While that particular thread was pretty valuable to any hobbyist looking to dip into the Sugar-Bowl, I recall some independent SP coming in there and blasting it, also showing a link to a site for Sugar-Babies, which basically tried to teach them how to fleece guys on the site. So, like, do the opposite of the points above, like never agree to PPM always go for allowance. How to target & milk the Whales, etc.

Right now, I would guess, like the Spa scene the Sugar-Bowl pickings are likely filled w/ Piranhas.

That aside, it can also be a GREAT tool for setting up options for those hobbyists who travel abroad. Say you’re doing a hobbying trip in Medellin, Colombia? (When travel normalizes or whenever) Well Seeking.com can be a good tool to use to get some connections for possible options to hook-up with when there (really hot and intensely sexual young ladies (you'll feel like their 'novio' for that night) for a fraction of the prices paid here). I’ve heard of great success stories using it in this way.

It's definitely for those who have the desire, resources, time, patience and acumen to navigate it properly.

lol those retard mods go too far. Taking it down cause it opposes the view we can only see SPs? It's a general conversation and some SPs go on the site anyway.

The independent SP is just jealous she can't put herself out there on the site and attract many members to start an arrangement with her. Too much competition for her and the quality of the girls on the site is far greater than what you can find in SPs. No such thing as listed as 19 and you find out the girl is actually 31. The girls on the site are their stated ages.

But you're right, lots of scam artists and time wasters there but it works both ways. I ghost girls when I find someone better. But good pointers that have been established in the thread in previous posts. Anyone stupid enough to fall for sending EMTs or paying for video calls deserves to be scammed in general but at least we've provided the warnings. Definitely a time investment but I find it works out a lot better as the connection with the girl is better and she's not been jaded through being in the sex industry.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

I've switched to Seeking altogether for my fun time.

PPM is 500, for 3-4 hours, so that works out less than an SP per hour, to see someone with less traffic. You need to have at least some basic level of social skills, don't expect them to just open their legs to you. I've seen my fair share of women, some of them are freaky as hell.

I do miss MPAs, but will stick with an arrangement with 1-2 girls until current situations calm down.

Make sure you are clear with your intentions. If a girl can swindle you for 500 for a platonic date, they will.

Can u share how freaky were they ?

 

[Deleted member 79939]

I have used both Secret benefits and Whats Your Price. WYP is better in my opinion as you negotiate first and then once a price is settled on you can send a message and only that first message costs $. You can also use a prepaid visa for credits but need to be careful since you are using cdn funds to pay US prices. Caused me an issue .

At the end of the day I only made one solid connection. $400 for the date and it was all afternoon. 12 to 5. Fucked her three times and she was very horny professional milf that worked for U of T

Wow
How was the foreplay

 

[Deleted member 73937]

To each there own, but I would never pay and definitely never pay $400 to bang a milf. Just got to any bar in the suburbs on a friday night and you could easily take one home for free.

and exactly how would i explain that milf to Mrs Petersen? patiently waiting for your sage advice

 

[Toucan]

Can u share how freaky were they ?

lol probably not to your standard of freaky M777, but some were into public play, some were into bondage, anal, one girl loves glory holes...

But again, gotta go fish for them.

 

[Toucan]

There was a great and very lengthy thread on TERB about using Seeking Arrangements that got taken down (by the mods), pre-covid, I believe it was. Lots of great insights/stories/experiences and tips on there, but now gone.

Also known as the “Sugar-Bowl”, where the Sugar-Daddies go to find the Sugar-Babies and vice-versa.

Key-points for the hobbyist that I recall were:

1) It takes A LOT of time and effort BUT the payoff can be absolutely incredible.
2) Always do PPM (Pay Per Meet). Never agree to any sort of allowance.
3) NEVER EVER send money to a girl beforehand under any circumstance.
4) Be prepared to be ghosted many times (there will be many “a swing and a miss” types before you land a good hit, let alone a homerun).
5) Take the conversation offsite asap. (Never solicit there)

There were a lot of detailed reasons behind these points that I won’t go into and frankly just don’t recall exactly, beyond the obvious.

Average PPM quoted at the time was 200-400ish. Usually got you a few hours that could go well into the night when things went well.

While that particular thread was pretty valuable to any hobbyist looking to dip into the Sugar-Bowl, I recall some independent SP coming in there and blasting it, also showing a link to a site for Sugar-Babies, which basically tried to teach them how to fleece guys on the site. So, like, do the opposite of the points above, like never agree to PPM always go for allowance. How to target & milk the Whales, etc.

Right now, I would guess, like the Spa scene the Sugar-Bowl pickings are likely filled w/ Piranhas.

That aside, it can also be a GREAT tool for setting up options for those hobbyists who travel abroad. Say you’re doing a hobbying trip in Medellin, Colombia? (When travel normalizes or whenever) Well Seeking.com can be a good tool to use to get some connections for possible options to hook-up with when there (really hot and intensely sexual young ladies (you'll feel like their 'novio' for that night) for a fraction of the prices paid here). I’ve heard of great success stories using it in this way.

It's definitely for those who have the desire, resources, time, patience and acumen to navigate it properly.

The general points listed are all spot on, but I never understood the time and effort part.... I found that because a lot of creep message these girls, 50% of the battle is already done when you can actually carry a decent conversation that you would with any stranger. Throw in a dinner and you're set. To me, this is 100 easier than Tinder, Bumble, etc.

 

[hookerpuncher]

and exactly how would i explain that milf to Mrs Petersen? patiently waiting for your sage advice

If you're going to cheat on your wife why not with some young hot co ed that will let you relive your youth. Up to you but seems like a cougar wouldn't be wise as she could be affiliated with someone you know. Some youngin' is your friends daughter worse case scenario but I'm sure you would notice that.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

lol probably not to your standard of freaky M777, but some were into public play, some were into bondage, anal, one girl loves glory holes...

But again, gotta go fish for them.

Ha
Wow
Sounds like a movie

 

[Asscream]

Good info guys

Thanks

 

[robi22]

It differs from girl to girl. Some I've met just for sex. Others I've met for dinner and then sex. Others I've met for a few dinners to build trust and then sex. Others I've met for sex, followed by hours of deep conversations. Others I've met to watch Netflix and then sex.

There's no routine like SP or MPA. They are regular civies that you just happen to have an arrangement with.

Thanks for that - yes, I see this question come up a lot of times and some guys are thinking it's like calling up Mirage and asking them to send someone over

 

[Toucan]

Thanks for that - yes, I see this question come up a lot of times and some guys are thinking it's like calling up Mirage and asking them to send someone over

Yeah. Those guys are going to be SOL, and will be the first to complain.

All it takes is a little effort to be a decent human being, a bit of wit, some decent photos. That's how low the bar is.

 

[Masterj669]

Side note; always funny when you see your mutual friends or acquaintances on the site. So that's how you're paying for stuff eh haha

I saw my friends younger sister on the site before she cancelled. That would have been awkward if we met.

Saw my neighbor's daughter on SA.

 

[Masterj669]

Man this is what I’m trying lol

what would you include in your initial message?

I would always vary things up depending on the girls profile. Key is simple. Just don't be an idiot. If you ask a chick to fuck for $ 400 in your opening message it probably won't go well. I always assumed that these girls were not pros and I talked to them like that.

As someone else in this thread said, take your time, be patient.

I have talked to hundreds of girls on that site over the years and the stories I have heard about the jackassness of the men is actually pretty funny. Be polite.

 

[hookerpuncher]

Lots of French Canadians appearing in the area as well but I don't trust them. Most seem like scams even more so than the usual Toronto ones. Another pointer is to check the recent location. Bunch of overseas people will set Toronto as their location but are doing so to do online chats for money.

Regardless, still bunch of new accounts appearing every day but makes sense since school is starting or maybe some girls don't want to go back to work.

 

[hookerpuncher]

Every profile I've interacted with so far has been a scam lol pretty hilarious

Man what are you saying to these girls lol or maybe you're searching the wrong criteria. I avoid the curvy girls because apparently fat cow means curvy now and all these bitches packed on covid weight. No blacks either.

So far its been okay this year for me. Met 2 young Asian spinners with long term potential. Average looking athletic white girl that wants to have a threesome with her roommate and an Asian girl that actually wants to date.

 

[cryptoking]

For what it's worth, I've been on SA for over 8 years now. It use to be the best unknown secret, I use to find gorgeous college girls on there (easily 10's) and meet up with them for fun. The past few years it's been more watered down and the quality of females aren't as good - so don't use it as much. Like many said in this thread, it does involve lots of work but really worth it. I've had short flings and on-going arrangements with some unbelievable girls from there - have met up with over 100 girls during my tenure - and sorry, not trying to brag at all - just showing it's possible if you spend the time/effort. When chatting with girls, be direct and upfront right away - it saves everyone time! Do watch out for scammers, they are out there and try to blackmail so always be careful! Hope that helps. Anyone has more questions, send me a message.

 

[hookerpuncher]

lord knows lol ... not even what I'm saying the photos are just fake lol

Do a reverse google search and its some EU insta hoe or Aussie insta hoe lol

Oh yeah, you have to assume a lot of girls will use fake photos for discretion sake. They could easily see their boss or uncle on the site so they be careful. Case in point me seeing my friends sisters profile.

Gotta access their private photos or ask them off the site to send you more recent ones. That's not really a scam I would say, even you should be using different photos for your own discretion. Don't want these bitches taking your photo to some blast site later on saying you're a dirt bag sugar daddy lol