As for you SPEXX, it is Bob the Knob who could be sued for slander, for tarnishing someone's reputation. Why is it okay for Bob to post BS and ruin other people's lives and not okay for me to post the truth and ruin his life? Is it because these ladies lives are not important and Bob's life is so much more important because he is superior? Also thanks for the reminder. I will make sure I photoshop the photo of Bob to remove all the background
I have written this response a few times, partially because I sympathize with the situation and partially because I am infuriated by your blatant disregard.
If Bobโs review is BS, and Iโm not saying it isnโt, how in this day and age could it ruin someoneโs life?
I am not heartless, but I also donโt believe half of what is posted here to be true and if it where my Wife, Girlfriend, Daughter, or Mother; I would trust them. These are adults who should be aware that their choices and their actions have rewards and consequences. Especially since what transpires is entirely for money and has nothing to do with love.
If a provider is embarrassed by their actions, then donโt do it. I know full well if I sell my companies products out of the truck of my car, or grease a client with a romp in the bed, itโs likely I will get fired and have family related issues.
I too share your concern about sharing too much especially of those who ask for discretion. I also understand, in my short time being here, if discretion is such a necessity, why arenโt those most concerned expressing it up front? I have met a small number of ladies and not one has ever expressed a need for discretion or have ever been shy about the โextrasโ. And more importantly why the hell would they put themselves in that position with no prior knowledge or relationship with that person and expect anonymity or discretion from a stranger. After all, this ainโt some college drunkin โone night standโ, itโs providing money for services rendered.
Yes, I know the above comment swings both ways. The difference is a provider entering a situation with a stranger and getting paid to do so should not hold the client responsible for the ramifications of their choice to provide that service and get paid. A client has the right to expect that their payment is ALL they owe, unless agreed soon beforehand.
If something Bob, anyone else, or even myself said caused hardship for someone, I would feel guilty; but I have to ask, why take the risk if the consequence is worse than the reward? And if the review is false why wouldnโt your loved ones believe you when you claim so? You choose to try and ruin a manโs life by sharing personal info and try to justify it by saying HIS actions and comments caused this. I have to assume there is truth in his claims, otherwise what is the issue. And if his sharing is truthful and it caused harm, these are consequences to choices made primarily by the provider and not the client.
Massage Planet has been here for quite some time. Massage โspasโ as well. Some are strictly legit and some less so. Point is this is not news, both the fact that some places offer extras, and wow, people talk!
Something about your rant leads me to believe harm has been done. And I am not so heartless that I donโt sympathize. I for one will spend a bit more time contemplating my posts and shared info. Having said that, DO NOT ASSUME anyone is innocent in this!