i once met an indie.. who said "its difficult, many ppl fix appt and do not show up at venue!" i was like.. offcourse even you send photoshopped images and we get disappointed when we see money getting wasted for ppl like you
this strikes one thought to me on a different note - We all work hard.. many a times families control their desires of luxuries to save money, our moms save a taxi fare and prefer walk at times.. old aged parents try not to be burden on us by adjusting with not so good amenities and comforts..
We ourselves look for deals and coupon codes / cashbacks.. but when it comes to mongering the dick dominates the brain ;-)
if we look back and add all that we have spent in mongering (drinks/ travel charges/ fees / tips) it comes up to such a significant amount and atleast 70% of that can be considered as wasted behind non deserving ladies or un-quenched desires which once again are back at square one

Any yes.. they become rich for sure.. imagine being paid 5K- 10K a day for few hrs of letting a dick inside along with meals / place at other persons expense!