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[Chivas Regal]

You are right on all counts except the consolidation of thoughts - that is an ongoing monologue.

I have no end game for this thread - this is strictly for entertainment purposes, as it were.

I meant end game for the business...

 

[BmH6769]

- Girls showing up for work looking "ratchet" need to enter through the back door

Hahahaha...that’s a good one

 

[spincity]

Why is it 9 out of 10 times at a spa when I am getting dressed after a session the mpa asks, "so where are you going/what are you doing when you leave the spa?

 

[hangul99]

How does this line of work affect your sexual relationships outside of work, if at all?

If heard of some girls having issues with intimacy after working as a MPA. Is this an issue?

 

[xtc27]

How does this line of work affect your sexual relationships outside of work, if at all?

If heard of some girls having issues with intimacy after working as a MPA. Is this an issue?

BF question= No .... asked & answered coupla times... incl if other partner = not a male... :

Chat - I'm An MPA - Ask Me Anything. :)

I have very thick hair all over my body...like Robin William’s arm. It’s difficult to see the skin as there is so much hair and I keep it long. Even still - it would take ten minutes at most to trim it with a clipper and then the wax would be the same as anyone.

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Chat - I'm An MPA - Ask Me Anything. :)

I have very thick hair all over my body...like Robin William’s arm. It’s difficult to see the skin as there is so much hair and I keep it long. Even still - it would take ten minutes at most to trim it with a clipper and then the wax would be the same as anyone.

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Q#2 she's kinda answered, "Not been sexually active for years, by choice" .... sex in spa = Not for her gratification = not sexually active... seems like being MPA has shutdown her sex life...

 

[Deyannis]

Does a sp really mean it when she tells me she's okay with a facial? Because sometimes I feel bad about it afterwards.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Ever thought about quitting ?
Is it true that MPA makes same as much as a medical doctor ?
(I know it's rude to ask, but it stays ask me anything!)

Yes.

A quick search says the average yearly salary in Ontario for an MD is around 300k. I'm sure there are some MPAs making that, but it would be a very small number and they probably work everyday and are doing high volume plus high mileage. The average MPA works 3 days per week and yearly take home is 50-70k.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Thanks again for offering us to ask you questions.
Have you considered doing cam work like strip cam or cam soda or doing only fans,
And quit the massage game?

No.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Why is it 9 out of 10 times at a spa when I am getting dressed after a session the mpa asks, "so where are you going/what are you doing when you leave the spa?

She may be genuinely curious but we are trained to create conversation so that it doesn't seem so transactional. I don't ask clients this because it's not my business where they are going and I don't want to know - example if they are going home to their family, I don't want to hear about that. If we made a connection throughout the session, we probably already talked about that. To try and bolt it on at the end seems disingenuous to me.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

How does this line of work affect your sexual relationships outside of work, if at all?

If heard of some girls having issues with intimacy after working as a MPA. Is this an issue?

I haven't dated and will not date while working.

I would think so. Same reason I believe most men have intimacy issues before coming to an MPA, but especially after hobbying long term. The nature of the relationship between a sex worker and client doesn't leave room for a healthy mindset around relationship dynamics, the longer either side does it, the worse they will be off in the end.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Does a sp really mean it when she tells me she's okay with a facial? Because sometimes I feel bad about it afterwards.

I don't know. Depends on how you define 'Okay' and what the motivations are. She could be okay with it because she feels the need to offer that to stay competitive.

The question now is, if you're wondering this, you probably know the answer. Why do you keep doing it?

 

[Deyannis]

I don't know. Depends on how you define 'Okay' and what the motivations are. She could be okay with it because she feels the need to offer that to stay competitive.

The question now is, if you're wondering this, you probably know the answer. Why do you keep doing it?

Yes, I'll never ask again. But I enjoyed it because I reached the age where I felt the way women treated me in my dating years (28-35 because I lived in poverty for so long before that) was very hurtful and in my 40s I was very upset about it. Clearly, I did note at least once that the young lady was not comfortable as I was finishing on her face. I feel horrible as well after noticing she worked for maybe 2 weeks at Seduction. I feel her leaving was fine but not because she felt so horrible after our session

 

[Deleted member 89502]

I meant end game for the business...

Oh.

Pay off my cards, pay off my car, buy somewhere I can live that can't be messed with. Put up enough supplies for 7 years. Once that's done, I'm out.

 

[Happyman]

When you have an orgasm at spa, it's usually because the client is your type or his technique makes you so? Is it ture that you probably would have a better chance to have one when you start working on the day?

 

[Deyannis]

Oh.

Pay off my cards, pay off my car, buy somewhere I can live that can't be messed with. Put up enough supplies for 7 years. Once that's done, I'm out.

Why do young women, when they are out together, ridicule or boast about their partners dick size? Has it ever occurred to them that in their post-divorce 40s they will desperately want the small dick, kind hearted, stable nice guy?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

It sounds like your job is a means to an end, and that is true for most people. But most of us make our peace with this and find things about our jobs that we like. How about you? Or do you start the working day waiting for it to be over?

 

[Deleted member 89502]

When you have an orgasm at spa, it's usually because the client is your type or his technique makes you so? Is it ture that you probably would have a better chance to have one when you start working on the day?

A man being 'my type' is not a guarantee in and of itself that I will climax during a session with them. In fact, many attractive younger men come in with such a bad attitude that I find myself having to check them frequently throughout the session.

I'm assuming you mean at start of shift? No relevance.

 

[Pure Delight]

Do you treat your regulars better than a walk-in or do you treat everyone identically?

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Why do young women, when they are out together, ridicule or boast about their partners dick size? Has it ever occurred to them that in their post-divorce 40s they will desperately want the small dick, kind hearted, stable nice guy?

Because they have allowed themselves to think that is appropriate behavior.

No woman wants a man with a small dick unless sex is painful for them due to a medical issue, in which case they probably don't want sex at all. The only other exception I can think of is that they have a small dick fetish. Any sane woman wants a man with an average to large penis, who takes care of himself so he can take care of her. Anything a man gives to a woman, she will improve. Anything a man gives to trash, will turn to trash and vice versa.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

It sounds like your job is a means to an end, and that is true for most people. But most of us make our peace with this and find things about our jobs that we like. How about you? Or do you start the working day waiting for it to be over?

The only days I start working wishing the day was over is if I am excessively tired or in pain. While I am at work, I'm looking forward to making money to reach my end goals. But a beloved regular can easily turn this around.

There are aspects of my job I like. I sometimes have sessions with men I would be very compatible with in real life and take some solace in the fact that we have crossed paths and that I made money to spend time with them.