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[UsefulIdiot]

I think it's normal to feel lonely every once in a while, depending on the circumstances (breakup, job loss, etc.), but I don't think it's normal to be constantly in this state of mind. I was referring to the latter, which is a general state of mind and a mental health issue. It's an issue that I suspect those men don't even realize they have, and sometimes are ashamed to admit. What I was referring to in my earlier comment was that to those people, excessive visits to MPs is a kind of defense-mechanism to offset that feeling (which does not work).

I urge people who do feel these bouts of loneliness to consider their feelings seriously, and address them through therapy and professional help. With COVID shutting everything down, I would not be surprised if this issue has gotten 50 times worse during this period.

I remember reading a few years ago that the UK announced a new 'Minister of Loneliness' to raise awareness about this issue!

If you are lonely and have the resources and time get a small cute dog. First off, you will have a friend who needs you and adores you and is always happy to see you. Secondly, whenever I walk my dog I end up talking to people. Some are dog walkers, some just want to interact with my dog. I have had people stop their cars to take pictures of my dog. Young beautiful women coo and aah over the little guy. If not a dog then when COVID is over join a club or class of some kind - martial arts, cooking, dancing, bowling, whatever. Little communities always form, people make friends and sometimes date. Get out of the house and out of your head. And lastly, if there are people in your family you have become distant from try to fix those relationships - family is forever.

 

[Deleted member 66315]

Can I snort blow off your ass or tits?

 

[Sybarite]

Throughout history and even today there has been a striking lack of parity between men and women in certain high level roles of leadership, for example, leaders of countries, CEOs, generals, etc.

Do you feel that's because of structural systems of social oppression, like the patriarchy, or is it a natural reflection of biological roles men and women are programmed to seek due to differences in the genetic wiring of their gender?

 

[Cool-Story-Bro]

You're obviously also very well spoken and intelligent. We're allowed our fantasy 's and mine will be taking you out shopping for a beautiful dress and shoes to take you to some high profile banquet making every guy in the room jealous.

Definition of SIMP
lol

 

[krayjee]

A few years ago, I was in the room with an attendant at Pure spa, and in casual conversation she said her work was only awkward on days she needed her dad to give her a lift to work. I asked her to clarify that he knew what this place of work was, and she assured me that he did, but that he felt she couldn't do any better. I really want to believe her story was all B.S. and yet it was so bizarre that I think it might be true. What's your thinking? Have you heard of these kinds of situations mentioned by the women you know? Or is that kind of story manipulation so men tip more?

I do know a semi legit spa girl whose dad drives her and picks her up every day to the spas she works.

 

[Deleted member 64273]

Hahaha reminds me of the story of Haylee from Perla about how she opened the door to go into the room to see her client and her client was her father!

 

[Deleted member 64273]

Apologies if this was already asked:

Have you ever dated and/or fallen in love with a hobbyist, not necessarily a client of yours?

Have you ever gotten into fights with other MPAs over things like drug use, client stealing, etc?

 

[greensleaves]

Thank you for the links - I will save them to look at later. There have been ongoing trials for years with MDMA for treatment of depression.

How much THC do you take? When I take RSO, I literally squeeze out 1/4 of a grain of rice and that's it. It's enough to take pain away and make me chill out. I don't find that I can concentrate or that my sleep is affected. Maybe if I took more but the dosage I use is effective for its intended purpose, for me.

Psychedelics are best taken with guide or a guided group

Guides provide the "plant medicine" as it is called

meet up Toronto has meet up groups for "psychonauts" and there is a " conscious cannabis " group where you do dope with meditation. It is on the lighter end of psychedelics but you definitely trip

If your amygdala is activated you experience fear and anxiety as you would going into any unknown. You have to learn to control the fear but you can still learn from the trip

MDMA is less likely to activate amygdala so my trips on it have been beautiful as you experience a feeling of love

I have tripped around 30 times on bufo, nn dmt, 4aco dmt, 5 meo dmt, mushroom, ayahausca, mdma , mushroom/mdma mix (flip) which is my favorite, dope and next I want to try ketamine. LSD and cactus last all day so I do not do them. The ones I have tried last around 3 hours but can seem much longer , or shorter, as you experience time dilation

bufo, nn and 5 meo last 10 minutes but are the most powerful . You smoke one deep drag and you will not remember the exhale , You will likely experience death and go to heaven and feel a oneness with everything and all is love but that depends on what the medicine decides you need - think of it as medicine for your psyche and soul

Be forewarned, you are going into the rabbit hole but every comes back if you have a competent guide .

You are welcome

 

[deusexsumma]

Thanks for your "4x" book list it was equally interesting and disparate. I've not heard of a number of them.

1. How many books do you own? Feel free to measure in books or bookcases.

2. Here is a list of books people pretend to have read to appear more intelligent.
For fun, which of these have you read (other than the Bronte sisters books).

1984 by George Orwell – 26%
War and Peace by Leo Tolstoy – 19%
Great Expectations by Charles Dickens – 18%
Catcher in the Rye by J D Salinger – 15%
A Passage to India by E M Forster – 12%
Lord of the Rings by J R R Tolkein – 11%
To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee – 10%
Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoyevsky – 8%
Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen – 8%
Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë – 5%

3. Thank you, sincerely, for your time. No more questions, though I'd like to give back in a small way. Based on reading this entire thread, I thought you might like these three quotes (particularly the last one.


"The First Lady is, and always has been, an unpaid public servant elected by one person, her husband."
- Lady Bird Johnson

"For me, books have been a life-long resource-to learning, laughter, solace, excitement, inspiration.
At your library, the world awaits you, free for the asking."
- Lady Bird Johnson

“Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people.”
- Eleanor Roosevelt.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Psychedelics are best taken with guide or a guided group

Guides provide the "plant medicine" as it is called

meet up Toronto has meet up groups for "psychonauts" and there is a " conscious cannabis " group where you do dope with meditation. It is on the lighter end of psychedelics but you definitely trip

If your amygdala is activated you experience fear and anxiety as you would going into any unknown. You have to learn to control the fear but you can still learn from the trip

MDMA is less likely to activate amygdala so my trips on it have been beautiful as you experience a feeling of love

I have tripped around 30 times on bufo, nn dmt, 4aco dmt, 5 meo dmt, mushroom, ayahausca, mdma , mushroom/mdma mix (flip) which is my favorite, dope and next I want to try ketamine. LSD and cactus last all day so I do not do them. The ones I have tried last around 3 hours but can seem much longer , or shorter, as you experience time dilation

bufo, nn and 5 meo last 10 minutes but are the most powerful . You smoke one deep drag and you will not remember the exhale , You will likely experience death and go to heaven and feel a oneness with everything and all is love but that depends on what the medicine decides you need - think of it as medicine for your psyche and soul

Be forewarned, you are going into the rabbit hole but every comes back if you have a competent guide .

You are welcome

My own experiences have been interesting, therapeutic and surprising but all have originated from my subconscious. Have you ever had the profound experiences that people like Terrence McKenna and Joe Rogan talk about?

 

[Deleted member 89502]

I like massages

I did actually have one client that was attractive and would literally just get the massage, and then go home and fuck his girlfriend.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

A few years ago, I was in the room with an attendant at Pure spa, and in casual conversation she said her work was only awkward on days she needed her dad to give her a lift to work. I asked her to clarify that he knew what this place of work was, and she assured me that he did, but that he felt she couldn't do any better. I really want to believe her story was all B.S. and yet it was so bizarre that I think it might be true. What's your thinking? Have you heard of these kinds of situations mentioned by the women you know? Or is that kind of story manipulation so men tip more?

I believe that.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Can I snort blow off your ass or tits?

Yes, but it's extra.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Throughout history and even today there has been a striking lack of parity between men and women in certain high level roles of leadership, for example, leaders of countries, CEOs, generals, etc.

Do you feel that's because of structural systems of social oppression, like the patriarchy, or is it a natural reflection of biological roles men and women are programmed to seek due to differences in the genetic wiring of their gender?

Both, for sure.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Hahaha reminds me of the story of Haylee from Perla about how she opened the door to go into the room to see her client and her client was her father!

 

[Deleted member 66315]

Yes, but it's extra.

extra like I have to give you a bump too?

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Apologies if this was already asked:

Have you ever dated and/or fallen in love with a hobbyist, not necessarily a client of yours?

Have you ever gotten into fights with other MPAs over things like drug use, client stealing, etc?

I do paid dates. I have not been at this long enough to see someone long enough to develop feelings for them, though I do care deeply about some of my regulars.

No. I did have an issue with one girl who wouldn't take a hint about me setting boundaries. I took a few big verbal digs at her when opportunities presented and I had had it to shut her up. Nothing physical, she was just being petty and immature.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Psychedelics are best taken with guide or a guided group

Guides provide the "plant medicine" as it is called

meet up Toronto has meet up groups for "psychonauts" and there is a " conscious cannabis " group where you do dope with meditation. It is on the lighter end of psychedelics but you definitely trip

If your amygdala is activated you experience fear and anxiety as you would going into any unknown. You have to learn to control the fear but you can still learn from the trip

MDMA is less likely to activate amygdala so my trips on it have been beautiful as you experience a feeling of love

I have tripped around 30 times on bufo, nn dmt, 4aco dmt, 5 meo dmt, mushroom, ayahausca, mdma , mushroom/mdma mix (flip) which is my favorite, dope and next I want to try ketamine. LSD and cactus last all day so I do not do them. The ones I have tried last around 3 hours but can seem much longer , or shorter, as you experience time dilation

bufo, nn and 5 meo last 10 minutes but are the most powerful . You smoke one deep drag and you will not remember the exhale , You will likely experience death and go to heaven and feel a oneness with everything and all is love but that depends on what the medicine decides you need - think of it as medicine for your psyche and soul

Be forewarned, you are going into the rabbit hole but every comes back if you have a competent guide .

You are welcome

A few of those are new to me - more research. I forgot, DMT is on my list as well.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Thanks for your "4x" book list it was equally interesting and disparate. I've not heard of a number of them.

1. How many books do you own? Feel free to measure in books or bookcases.

2. Here is a list of books people pretend to have read to appear more intelligent.
For fun, which of these have you read (other than the Bronte sisters books).

1984 by George Orwell – 26%
War and Peace by Leo Tolstoy – 19%
Great Expectations by Charles Dickens – 18%
Catcher in the Rye by J D Salinger – 15%
A Passage to India by E M Forster – 12%
Lord of the Rings by J R R Tolkein – 11%
To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee – 10%
Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoyevsky – 8%
Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen – 8%
Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë – 5%

3. Thank you, sincerely, for your time. No more questions, though I'd like to give back in a small way. Based on reading this entire thread, I thought you might like these three quotes (particularly the last one.


"The First Lady is, and always has been, an unpaid public servant elected by one person, her husband."
- Lady Bird Johnson

"For me, books have been a life-long resource-to learning, laughter, solace, excitement, inspiration.
At your library, the world awaits you, free for the asking."
- Lady Bird Johnson

“Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people.”
- Eleanor Roosevelt.

1. 2 stuffed IKEA Billy bookkcases (the big ones) and I'm trying to find a third (used) as my couch currently the home for another bunch of books. I would estimate my personal library to have betwen 6-700. My dream is to have a library similar to the one in 'Beauty And The Beast'. I do try to rotate books as much as possible though, only keeping the ones I need for reference, or that I enjoyed so much I would reread for pleasure.

2.
1984 by George Orwell – 26% - yes
War and Peace by Leo Tolstoy – 19% - own it but have not read it yet
Great Expectations by Charles Dickens – 18% - own it but have not read it yet
Catcher in the Rye by J D Salinger – 15% - yes
A Passage to India by E M Forster – 12% - no
Lord of the Rings by J R R Tolkein – 11% - own the series, have not read it yet, last attempt made several years ago but could not stay focused
To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee – 10% - no
Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoyevsky – 8% - own it but have not read it.
Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen – 8% - own it but have not read it
Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë – 5% - yes

3. I have known the third for a long time, it's a favorite.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

extra like I have to give you a bump too?

No, you have to give me money.