Dating an Asian Massage Girl

[rnqvzoid]

I actually have a friend who dated one AMP girl and then a second. He ended up divorced from his wife estranged from his kids and is now married with a child to the second girl.
I felt badly because I was the one who in the first instance introduced him to the AMP experience.

 

[102030]

Also known as 'yellow fever'

 

[Good Luck]

PRETTY WOMEN w/ Richard Gere + Julia Roberts. How come no one has mention this?

Anyway, after talking to these women I find that most of them usually just eat + sleep. They spend most of there down time playing on the computer or gossiping with one another. Outside of work, from the ones I've talk don't really go out. So it makes sense that the only opportunity they have to meet people is at work.

Just my two cents.

 

[ricynchoini]

 

[woodysdeath]

That is an obvious reason I turned her down. She has never done FS to my knowledge but who knows for sure?

 

[jqeonuqvixaixlelh]

u would date an amp girl... dont u worry about diseases?

 

[Ziggy Stardust]

I actually had an Asian massage girl recently want to become my GF and move in with me. It came out of Left field just because we got along on my semi regular visits. I never asked her out and was always just there as a customer. I tried to explain to her that while I was flattered I really was not that interested. To make a long story short, I stopped going there because she was becoming somewhat of a stalker.

Don't get me wrong, If I was not in a committed relationship I might have taken her in for awhile but I don't think the current GF would appreciate it too much if I brought in new talent.

 

[?pain?love?torment?]

Mimi from Lite has a BF now. Who is it? The last guy dumped her she told me. I gave her an extra cup of insemination fluid as a present. She told me she's not working now . She'll be back..

 

[gjegqemn]

CPieFiller, You've obviously got some first hand experience, so you know what you're talking about. The last half of your post really hit the spot. It's interesting though, how we all seem to see this industry through our own microscope (myself included).

It appears your view comes mostly through friendships with FS ladies in NYC, the vast majority of which have spent at least some time at R&T spots. But if I read your post correctly, you're saying 99% of R&T ladies do, or have done FS work. That I disagree with.

My own microscopic view comes from friendships I've made with R&T ladies in NJ. I dont frequent FS places, so I've never made friendships there, and I am therefore ignorant of their world. From my perspective, my guess (a wild guess) would be maybe 25% R&T ladies who have also worked the FS market. I'm pretty sure my guess is off a bit, but I'm also sure that yours is off by more.

You said it only depends on the "local house rules of where they are working at the time". All the ladies I know choose the house they work in. The house rules are part of the equation when they make that choice.

This thread has some helpful insight from Nabbeun, who seems to have a wide-angle lens on his microscope.
http://www.massageplanet.com/forum/showthread.php?t=97173

 

[Sandy S]

I really hate to really break it to you but for 99% of them they will and have done just R&T and FS. What they do is more of the local house rules of where they are working at the time. If the house is cool with FS then they will do it because it pays more. If it is just a R/T because the local LE is cool with that just as long as it isn't FS then they will do that.

If they are seriously interested in you and want to establish a relationship with you they will tell you they only do R/T. Take it as a compliment.

I have dated 2 AMP gals. #1 I still see to this day. She is great and a very normal person. She just happens to have a job that is a bit strange by American standards. #2 was younger and hotter. She was a bit caught up in the lifestyle but still a great gal. It is to be expected, we were all young and thought we knew everything too.

The best and only thing you can do with any gal is treat them like a normal girl. AMP gals are no exception. I have dated plenty of go-go dancer because I treat them like normal people. Most guys act so strange and fake around them they pick up on it right away. They know if you can or can't handle the fact of what they do or have done. They know it right away.

There seems to be 2 types of gals. The party fun go crazy girl that is going to spend every dime she makes and eventually get old and ugly and end up being the 50 year old AMP worker. Or the smart girl that saves her money finds a good man get married. If that man turns into a jackass she'll dump him and find a better man that never knew she once licked a-holes for a living. Have a few kids and live a very respectful life.

They are really no different them most of us. Yes I have had to kiss my boss' ass on a few times...just like everyone.

 

[OrangeakekenI]

It is not racist, it is called asian fetish, it is actually very common among college campus now a day.

 

[ktk]

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Looking inside everyone else's world as far as racism is concerned, I imagine the song from Avenue Q is appropriate here.
Everyone's a little bit racist.

Sad but probably true and nothing to be proud of. I like to think of myself as not racist either but I am sure we have all been in situations where we said something that was racist. Sad but probably true.
Heck is the fact that I prefer Asian women over another group of women racist?? I don't know, maybe it is???

 

[frogflames]

well, some of them are waaayy hot.

but your point is well taken. the classic argument from mothers to daughters why they shouldn't put out: why is someone gonna buy the cow if he can just milk it for free? (or in this case, rent it for an hour and milk it). in many instances...it is better to be the customer. you get most of the benefits at a reasonable cost, and dont have the drama and responsibilities of a relationship.

but bf status has its perks. just be sure you are in the chemistry/compatability corner, and not the meal ticket case. altho granted its not always immediately obvious except in hindsight...

 

[Rolfe Salamat]

First of all my comment was when I see an older Jewish guy in the mall with a younger better looking Asian girl I yell massagee. Trying to compare my comment to a veteran on a wheelchair with his wife is incomparable.

I don't yell massagee when I see any Asian girls and my comment didn't even insinuate that. Don't even try to call me a racist because you don't know me. Call me a "HornDog" because that is what I am. An equal opportunity heterosexual HornDog as well!!!!!

The only comment I take back is the Ho comment. I think working girls is acceptable and I apologize to the working girls for using it.

One time I asked Carol if she would ever date outside of work and she said "Don't chase money, it's beneath you and why would you date a working girl?" I didn't ask anymore but deep down I wish the best for Sunny, Yong, Cici (both Cici's from VipCat) and all of the outstanding KAMP providers. I try not judge people by their outside appearances. But actions speak louder than words (writing) and if I could see see your life in 360 I wonder what I really find out about you?

 

[Ashkin]

if you did date an RT girl would you be ok knowing that while you're at home watching tv or what not, she's stroking some other guy's c0ck? Granted, its just a means to an end but I'd rather that thought not end up with that in my head while i'm doing her.

 

[leegfuzpianigfezp]

Why would anyone wants to date F/S amp girl?
and Why date R/T amp girl?
IMHO been their customer is better than been their boyfriend(s).
Nothing is Free in their world.

 

[ReonryFedbend]

in all this discussion, you really need to separate whether you are talking about a r/t amp girl, or a fs amp girl. in my experience there is a vast difference in the attitudes and behaviors of the two groups.

of course some r/t amp girls lean into the fs world with bjs and fs to some customers. but the true r/t girl saves a part of herself that is not available to customers...it seems to keep her sane and better grounded imho.

 

[guitarist_147]

You seem to be a narrow minded bigot against Asian women and maybe Asian people in general. I never did understand bigotry in all of my 57 years. People who are so slanted in their views are really to be pitied because they just are missing out on so much from wonderful people and a wonderful culture. Maybe you are that way because your G/F ran away with an Asian person. Whatever the reason, I sure hope you rethink your views.

 

[wolveyqg]

Hey Bcpac,...let me advise you that those terms are considered deragatory and are against the massageplanet Rules of Conduct!!

I strongly suggest that you read and follow them!!! -----> RULES F.A.Q.

 

[Scarlett-811]

What makes you a judge of other human beings?? If I recall there are forum rules to abide by and using negative terms that you have used are a breach of those rules. I ask the mods to remove this negative post from this thread since it contains such language unacceptable to the forum. It's none of your business what other people do with their personal lives.