Chat Can you trust spa girls...

[UsefulIdiot]

Over time, I have found the MPAs I'm very close to still lie around 10% of the time...ones I casually know probably lie around 30% of the time. Of course, this is just a guess since there's no way to know for sure.

What have you guys' experience been? What are some of the worse lies they told you?


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Another great thread. You have a talent for raising interesting topics.

 

[Eyes]

Another great thread. You have a talent for raising interesting topics.

The timing of the topic is far more interesting. Why would a seasoned hobbyist ask such a question this late in the game?

Hints of betrayal.

Just part of the game...

 

[UsefulIdiot]

The timing of the topic is far more interesting. Why would a seasoned hobbyist ask such a question this late in the game?

Hints of betrayal.

Just part of the game...

I try to be objective, separate fantasy from reality, but sometimes the lines get blurred. SWs are human, as are we. And they can be quite fickle, as can we. Perhaps it is better to just enjoy real moments and not seek anything beyond that.

 

[Eyes]

I try to be objective, separate fantasy from reality, but sometimes the lines get blurred. SWs are human, as are we. And they can be quite fickle, as can we. Perhaps it is better to just enjoy real moments and not seek anything beyond that.

Objectivity is a shell I also use to protect myself when the lines begin to blur. Ideally, I'd prefer to not have to use it. It's way more exciting when deep emotions surface for unexplainable reasons.

But I also agree, it's best to not seek anything beyond the transaction. Lately, hypocritically I've enjoyed their company, I often wonder what price the younger girls are paying in the long run emotionally entering into this business.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Objectivity is a shell I also use to protect myself when the lines begin to blur. Ideally, I'd prefer to not have to use it. It's way more exciting when deep emotions surface for unexplainable reasons.

But I also agree, it's best to not seek anything beyond the transaction. Lately, hypocritically I've enjoyed their company, I often wonder what price the younger girls are paying in the long run emotionally entering into this business.

I have noticed SWs burn out, take a few months off and then come back as good as before. Or never come back. Some adapt, and some do not last.

 

[Social-Misfit]

Ahhh who are any of us kidding, it's a pastime that's all, for dumping loads. Whether it be in her yap, ass or pussy, that's what it comes down to, and for that convenience, it costs

 

[Deleted member 101953]

Ahhh who are any of us kidding, it's a pastime that's all, for dumping loads. Whether it be in her yap, ass or pussy, that's what it comes down to, and for that convenience, it costs

I'd say it's more costly now then it was say a decade ago..

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Ahhh who are any of us kidding, it's a pastime that's all, for dumping loads. Whether it be in her yap, ass or pussy, that's what it comes down to, and for that convenience, it costs

It is very convenient. It is great. I would rather pay now it costs less. I am definitely not getting laid as much in a conventioal relationship.

 

[Social-Misfit]

I'd say it's more costly now then it was say a decade ago..

1000% buddy, doesn't equate either, same fucking services

 

[Social-Misfit]

It is very convenient. It is great. I would rather pay now it costs less. I am definitely not getting laid as much in a conventioal relationship.

Agreed, don't know why women cant/won't figure that out with guys, just fuck and suck us, we won't run to massage whores...

 

[OG_funguy]

I'd say it's more costly now then it was say a decade ago..

When I first started hobbying, it costs $40 all in for massage + happy ending. Full service with gorgeous Russian girls was $100 all in. Took a long break and when I started again, I was paying $100 all in for massage + HE. I didn’t know about this site and always paid $100 total. You would be surprised what you can get for that lol…many girls had no problems getting completely naked for that amount. Got close to one girl and she just started doing BBBJ for me one day (I never even asked for it). I still see her regularly today. Of course, after discovering this site, I am much more in tune with market rates now

 

[eyeswideshut]

Over time, I have found the MPAs I'm very close to still lie around 10% of the time...ones I casually know probably lie around 30% of the time. Of course, this is just a guess since there's no way to know for sure.

What have you guys' experience been? What are some of the worse lies they told you?


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I think they can't help it. Even if you get really close to them they instinctively know that if they are completely honest with you that you probably can't handle it. And they're probably right

Not true in my experience, I’m very close to a few girls and they never asked for anything.

But you give them companionship and someone to talk to and/or confide in. I think that's sorely lacking in their lives

Like in every walk of life, some people can be trusted and some can't.
And there's varying degrees in between.
I've made a number of friends with MPAs over the years and with the ones I've become friends with, trust has never been an issue.
Some, I've been to their houses or apartments. Others have been to my house. Never any problems.

Are these just friendship type relationships or is there ever more? If you're just hanging out casually then there probably won't be any trust issues. If it's more then that then I'd find it hard to believe that there's % trust (unless you're okay with a totally open relationship)

Of course not all the spa girls are trust worthy. We should not make a big deal about what the girls told you and just listen and determine what they said is true or not.

Some girls really want to make friends with their customers and the trust between them is mutual and truthful.

Try not to make the girls lie to you by avoiding asking some of the following questions:

- am I the only one going out with you?
- how old are you?
- do you have a boy friend or husband?
- why do you work as a spa girl?
- were you thinking of me?
- are you happy with your job or owner of the spa?
- did you take bath after the previous session?

Surprisingly I've found that even without asking any awkward questions I still get told lies quite regularly. That's something I don't fully understand. Why volunteer info that's not true when there's no reason to?

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

I think they can't help it. Even if you get really close to them they instinctively know that if they are completely honest with you that you probably can't handle it. And they're probably right


But you give them companionship and someone to talk to and/or confide in. I think that's sorely lacking in their lives


Are these just friendship type relationships or is there ever more? If you're just hanging out casually then there probably won't be any trust issues. If it's more then that then I'd find it hard to believe that there's % trust (unless you're okay with a totally open relationship)


Surprisingly I've found that even without asking any awkward questions I still get told lies quite regularly. That's something I don't fully understand. Why volunteer info that's not true when there's no reason to?

It is true. I am being with some great people in this business. They all lie and lie about some stuff but primarily transparent and not guarded which can be pretty honest to me with some. Even with these prostitutes it is definitely an opportunity for growth just have to stay on your toes. The one guy said it it is a dirty business.

 

[Dotanuki]

It is true. I am being with some great people in this business. They all lie and lie about some stuff but primarily transparent and not guarded which can be pretty honest to me with some. Even with these prostitutes it is definitely an opportunity for growth just have to stay on your toes. The one guy said it it is a dirty business.

Very wise observations. If you want a relationship of trust and honesty, don't have sex with them and keep your ears open. You learn a lot and you'll have genuine relationship. If sex is involved it's literally a matter of time before the lies start. They'll even tell you accounts from their life that testify to this fact. A well known mpa confided to me how she had a boyfriend for 5 years who totally believed her that she only did HJs. Yet she owed her owned house (practically paid off) and vehicle. She also had two side affairs during their relationship because they provided something she needed, then discarded. At the end she kept him around as she needed his address for an issue she had and then finally cut him off once her issue was resolved. The game is the game sirs. Ears and eyes open. They'll tell on themselves and you'll gain insight

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[startbeforeIfinish]

Very wise observations. If you want a relationship of trust and honesty, don't have sex with them and keep your ears open. You learn a lot and you'll have genuine relationship. If sex is involved it's literally a matter of time before the lies start. They'll even tell you accounts from their life that testify to this fact. A well known mpa confided to me how she had a boyfriend for 5 years who totally believed her that she only did HJs. Yet she owed her owned house (practically paid off) and vehicle. She also had two side affairs during their relationship because they were provided something she needed. At the end she kept him around as she needed his address for an issue she had and then finally cut him off once her issue was resolved. The game is the game sirs. Ears and eyes open. They'll tell on themselves and you'll gain insight

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"They will tell on themselves and you will gain insight." That is so true. Some are more full of good than others but you got to keep your ears and eyes open. Good post

 

[Flyfish86]

Start asking personal questions. The biggest question I’m always asked, What you do for a living, honey are you married or girlfriend? Why not you’re so handsome. When the fun part starts, It’s always, You strong man. You make lots of girls happy.

 

[Dotanuki]

"They will tell on themselves and you will gain insight." That is so true. Some are more full of good than others but you got to keep your ears and eyes open. Good post

Borne from years of interaction and being burnt more than once. The best and honest relationships were ones that were non sexual (in my case it allows me to expand clientele). The sexual ones will be a minefield EVEN if it's for free. Head on swivel and take HEED to the stories they tell. It informs you of behavioral patterns and attitude. Know when to get off the bus and monitor your emotional attachment. I GUARANTEE you they're doing the same calculus.

 

[Stingraye]

Nowadays you can't trust any girl. Spa or straight civilian. Both will burn you in one way or another.

 

[I_luv_SpaGirls]

Question: How do you know when a sex worker is lying?

 

[Darke Steele]

Question: How do you know when a sex worker is lying?

When she opens her fucking mouth. That's why you stick ur dick in it.



Just kidding....I'm in a bad mood today.