As mentioned by other postsin this thread, having enough time to include the abs in a one hour treatment is usually more of an issue than not being trained in abs work. So much of the general population's need for a massage is as a resuslt of back/neck issues, I would hardly ever manage to include abs work in the first few appointments with someone, that has got nothing to do with it being a red flag, that has everything to do with working on the areas that usually need the most work. I only mentioned the red flag in relation to That sounds like kenb thinks it is a red flag issue to ask for abdominal massage.
In my experience, all phone callers that have not been referred by another clientthat have asked about groin or abs work during the initial phone call have been looking for some other type of work in that area. Those that have wanted to direct the massage during the first appointment to that area have all been looking for some other type of work in that area. I don't do abs work in the first few appointments but back & neck usually take up so much time I wouldn't have enough time anyway. I don't do a cookie cutter treatment of what I was taught during my first massage course on any client (abs work was included in the first course I did).
Unlike some, I don't want to discuss someone's bowel movements during a first appointment, call me a prude if you want, but I do discuss it in relation to abs work, that's another reason I don't do it during the first appointment, unless they specifically say"I am extremely constipated", but then most people do not think of having a massage for constipation.