my poor dear 90 year old (91 next month) grandmother is in total agony. long story short she has alot of fluid in her knees, the are full of arthritis and she can't stand unaided, she's had some terrible falls over the last 2 months. it's gotten to the point were she needs 24 hour care, as she is constantly on the loo and we need to get her up from the chair and put her on the commode. she is so depressed as she has no independence and is fed up of looking at the same 4 walls (no way of getting her down stairs, she' a prisoner in her bedroom) she is starting to wish death upon herself and it's killing us all.
she said if the pain in her knees would ease up and she could make it to the bathroom, her life would be so much more bearable (she's desperately embarrassed using the commode) dr's have her on painkillers but they are only helping slightly.
can anyone tell me if aromatherapy massage on her knees is an option and if so what oils are best used? if anybody has any other suggestions of holistic therapies to use i would be so grateful.
she said if the pain in her knees would ease up and she could make it to the bathroom, her life would be so much more bearable (she's desperately embarrassed using the commode) dr's have her on painkillers but they are only helping slightly.
can anyone tell me if aromatherapy massage on her knees is an option and if so what oils are best used? if anybody has any other suggestions of holistic therapies to use i would be so grateful.