non-black girls i dated? I noticed with my non-black girlfriends/dates, when were at my house watching a movie or something, and i say babe, can you give me a back rub, she has no problem and is willing to do so, when i date a black women and i ask, why do she roll her eyes and say that she didnt come all the way to do that... Black women are also not as creative in bed as white women or romantic or having sex as much as non-black women.. I ask white/asian/hispanic girls to do things, they do it!! Black women you ask them to do something you get a whole bunch of lip smackin! Does anybody know why?