My boyfriend was the last to give me a massage and it was very romantic. Also, to me a massage is very personal, a general massage such as a neck or shoulder massage could be done for anyone, but let's be honest that is not the type of massages that people pay for all of the time, it is usually not general, I mean I'll give a general massage like a shoulder massage or back massage to one of my friends or siblings but to pay money for a very personal massage, I wouldn't. I'd just get my boyfriend to do a personal massage if I really wanted one that bad.