What you wish you knew

[whocares]

Hey

Lurker about to take first steps into the hobby here(next weekend).
I was wondering what you all wish you knew when starting out?
The two big ones I've gotten from the threads so far are:

Be hygienic, for everyone's sake.

BB is risky, best not to.

Anything else you'd all recommend?

P.S. if you have any parlour/attendant recommendations in the city, let me know in the thread or by DM!

 

[Bananafruit]

Don't get addicted. It's easy for this to get you to spend a lot of money. I could've bought a new car or two before I wisened up.

 

[Sajam Enjoyer]

Similar to real life, a smile can go a long way. If you're ever nervous meeting with an MPA or an SP, just know that the feeling is probably reciprocated on their side as well so a friendly energy and a good smile can make both you and her comfortable as well.

I like to sit on the table, wait for her to come in and try and talking for a bit before it starts. Doesn't have to be long and it doesn't have to be about anything substantial really, just the normal hi, how are you, you look great etc etc. Depending on the type of place it is (FS or semi legit), its also a good time to talk about the services you want and whether or not she is good with it

 

[Hornet]

Never be afraid to walk away. If you do a walk-in and don’t find a girl you like, just say thank you and leave. Don’t feel obliged to stay with someone and end up with a lousy session and now your wallet is lighter.

Also, understand the market pricing. Don’t let a girl overcharge you. Negotiate the price upfront. If she quotes are way too high then just ask for the basics. Once she realizes she’s leaving money on the table then her price will drop. Don’t cheap out on her, but don’t be taken for a sucker either.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

No guarantees but respect, good manners and being good natured usually go a long way.

 

[xtc27]

Never be afraid to walk away. If you do a walk-in and don’t find a girl you like, just say thank you and leave. Don’t feel obliged to stay with someone and end up with a lousy session and now your wallet is lighter.

Also, understand the market pricing. Don’t let a girl overcharge you. Negotiate the price upfront. If she quotes are way too high then just ask for the basics. Once she realizes she’s leaving money on the table then her price will drop. Don’t cheap out on her, but don’t be taken for a sucker either.

I used2 walkout 90% of time… just hoping 4 GND Asian milf & kep getting big tit mammas… when I finally met a girl I liked, I just trembled w lust… & still walked out.

But returned!

Spas dont remember u when u leave… they already forgot u b4 the door closed … I no fer shur, checked many times… became reg @ a place I left @ least 3 times! And they didn’t remember me @ all…

So true re haggling… if price 2hi, just downgrade on the service… usually they get reasonable w $$$ when they notice yer resolve. if she wants more than $60 tip & its just nude hj, walkout….

 

[Deleted member 80579]

This is an expensive hobby so because of that I don't ask for extras. However, if you want high mileage without asking for it learn how to give a really good massage. And at the start of the session when the attendant asks you to lay down so she can massage you, say "how about you lay down and I'll massage you". Watch the delight in her eyes. And then if you actually deliver a great massage watch your sessiom reach new heights.

You're welcome

 

[OldFort]

Herpes has no cure.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

I guess I would add to just take your time and do not make a porno movie the first few times. Enjoy the massage, enjoy the tease, and for the first few sessions just get an HJ. Let the MPA do her thing let her be in charge. Later on, elevate to BJs, and then 69, digits, before eventually getting to a session with penetration. I say this not just so that you more fully enjoy the whole experience, but also to take the pressure off yourself. I was celibate for ten years before I started the hobby (my wife lost interest in sex after menopause), and it took me a while for me to be comfortable having sex with strangers.