What do I do from here? Seeing an MPA outside the spa

[RayHughston]

I came across an massage parlour attendant in 2020.

Her name starts with K. Ever since then, I always see her when I visit that particular massage parlour (Hands from Heaven, later became Seduction Spa in 2023). Every visit was better than the last. I only book 1 hour sessions sometimes 90 minute sessions with this attendant. When I first met her, she was very strict about touching and would often say things like "you can touch me, but dont be too rough or aggressive".

I have gone on to see her maybe 8 or more times now. Now she grabs my hands and places them on her into the sessions (Ive never been the first to initiate contact - just being respectful). We would always small talk about life and she would always make feel comfortable. I've never asked for any extra services... ever. On a recent visit, after the session she mentions to me she felt a connection with me and would love to exchange numbers (I never asked for it). She tells me shes getting fed up with the massage parlour and its new management (Seduction Spa). I googled the number she gave me and found an VIPFavors profile of her offering escort services (It looked like an inactive listing with very old photos - shes a lot heavier now than in the pictures) Weeks later I text her asking if she would available to meet up, I was in town and had the day off...she told me she was interested and to message her on the actual day and said "maybe we could meet somewhere outside of the spa". The day comes, I forget to message her completely (got caught up in other things).

2 Months go by, I receive a text from an unidentified number. The texts asking how have I been, "its been months since Ive seen you". She reveals to me thats its her. And she mentioned that she had been thinking about me. She even wrote how she was feeling down and how my presence would brighten up her mood and how it would mean a lot if I came to see her that day. At that point I hadn't been to the spa in a few months and I agree to come in. Coincidentally - that whole day I felt soreness in my upper back so it made sense for me to go after work. I leave work and go straight there.

Of course another great session. But what I noticed was, she kept telling me during the session: "I miss your touch, I miss your hands, I miss everything about you". I realized at that point she encouraged more rough and aggressive touching now. Shes now kissing and licking my body in places she never did before, she also started nibbling my ear during the session (something she's never done with me before). At the end of the session after the release she lays her head on my chest for about a minute and tells me "please dont wait months before you come see me again". We talk about travel plans and family... She kisses me 3 times on cheeks and chin before putting on my clothes and leaving. She asked for my work schedule then said: "Maybe we should get drinks downtown after you're done work one of these days."

I send her a text message thanking her for another great session the following day (on her new number). I message her saying how I would love to recreate a session outside of the spa on a king size bed in an exotic location. She responds back saying she would love to make that vision a reality. The next day she sends a good morning text.

I want to book a nice hotel room in the city and enjoy her company for a few hours maybe an overnight FS session.

Am I reading too into this? Or should I just keep things professional? Is this tantric build up making a FS session inevitable? What should I do?

 

[Deleted member 101953]

Before you go out and use your hard earn dollars to book an expensive hotel with this broad, ask her out on a date and make sure she pays for it..If she is not willing to do that, dump her and move on..Remember, she is a business woman and her goal is drum up $$$$ from you. Think about it, do you think she would be txting you on a regular basis if she was making serious money from the other clients she sees in a day? Sounds like this broad is just using you and my guess is she's prolly not making enough money as she should be so she goes back to you and starts toying with your emotions...She's now got you chasing her..You don't see this? You are already planning to spend a few hours with her by booking an expensive hotel without even thinking it!..Next thing you know, you will be spending on gifts and other small perks like her time and company..Stuff like this doesn't last and one day she will be bored of this and put you in the friendzone. DO NOT let this broad play with your emotions
I hope im really wrong about your situation but that's what this all sounds like..Nothing wrong in taking a risk but i'd also be skeptical of her..

 

[walrus]

Only girl I've ever met outside of the spa met me in a park and sat on my lap in a dress with no underwear. She begged me to go back to my place even though we said we wouldn't. I made her cum like nine times before we fucked. Then she accused me of raping her. These girls, are crazy bud. Not worth. w

 

[VinnyBulbarino]

I came across an massage parlour attendant in 2020.

Her name starts with K. Ever since then, I always see her when I visit that particular massage parlour (Hands from Heaven, later became Seduction Spa in 2023). Every visit was better than the last. I only book 1 hour sessions sometimes 90 minute sessions with this attendant. When I first met her, she was very strict about touching and would often say things like "you can touch me, but dont be too rough or aggressive".

I have gone on to see her maybe 8 or more times now. Now she grabs my hands and places them on her into the sessions (Ive never been the first to initiate contact - just being respectful). We would always small talk about life and she would always make feel comfortable. I've never asked for any extra services... ever. On a recent visit, after the session she mentions to me she felt a connection with me and would love to exchange numbers (I never asked for it). She tells me shes getting fed up with the massage parlour and its new management (Seduction Spa). I googled the number she gave me and found an VIPFavors profile of her offering escort services (It looked like an inactive listing with very old photos - shes a lot heavier now than in the pictures) Weeks later I text her asking if she would available to meet up, I was in town and had the day off...she told me she was interested and to message her on the actual day and said "maybe we could meet somewhere outside of the spa". The day comes, I forget to message her completely (got caught up in other things).

2 Months go by, I receive a text from an unidentified number. The texts asking how have I been, "its been months since Ive seen you". She reveals to me thats its her. And she mentioned that she had been thinking about me. She even wrote how she was feeling down and how my presence would brighten up her mood and how it would mean a lot if I came to see her that day. At that point I hadn't been to the spa in a few months and I agree to come in. Coincidentally - that whole day I felt soreness in my upper back so it made sense for me to go after work. I leave work and go straight there.

Of course another great session. But what I noticed was, she kept telling me during the session: "I miss your touch, I miss your hands, I miss everything about you". I realized at that point she encouraged more rough and aggressive touching now. Shes now kissing and licking my body in places she never did before, she also started nibbling my ear during the session (something she's never done with me before). At the end of the session after the release she lays her head on my chest for about a minute and tells me "please dont wait months before you come see me again". We talk about travel plans and family... She kisses me 3 times on cheeks and chin before putting on my clothes and leaving. She asked for my work schedule then said: "Maybe we should get drinks downtown after you're done work one of these days."

I send her a text message thanking her for another great session the following day (on her new number). I message her saying how I would love to recreate a session outside of the spa on a king size bed in an exotic location. She responds back saying she would love to make that vision a reality. The next day she sends a good morning text.

I want to book a nice hotel room in the city and enjoy her company for a few hours maybe an overnight FS session.

Am I reading too into this? Or should I just keep things professional? Is this tantric build up making a FS session inevitable? What should I do?

I’m sorry to say this Brother, but it sounds like she’s hustling you. Massage parlors and escorts have seen a decline in business (as with a lot of other industries). So the women are upping the ante: more intimacy, more liberal service (including BBBJ and BBFS). They know how to read a man, and if they sense you are lonely or vulnerable, they will sink their claws into you. Also on a side note, 90% of these broads have very complicated and messy lives outside of work, it’s best to keep your sessions at the spa and keep it strictly business. My two cents paisan.

 

[RayHughston]

I understand this position. I would only be interested in a short term fling, nothing serious. Just wanted to see her outside of the spa.

I’m sorry to say this Brother, but it sounds like she’s hustling you. Massage parlors and escorts have seen a decline in business (as with a lot of other industries). So the women are upping the ante: more intimacy, more liberal service (including BBBJ and BBFS). They know how to read a man, and if they sense you are lonely or vulnerable, they will sink their claws into you. Also on a side note, 90% of these broads have very complicated and messy lives outside of work, it’s best to keep your sessions at the spa and keep it strictly business. My two cents paisan.

 

[Darke Steele]

I would only do that if she has a family and kids of her own. Otherwise, it's a dangerous and very slippery slope.

Don't allow yourself to believe that you're special.

 

[VinnyBulbarino]

I understand this position. I would only be interested in a short term fling, nothing serious. Just wanted to see her outside of the spa.

Short term and nothing serious can turn into something quickly if not careful. Remember 90% of these ladies are hustlers, they’re only objective is $$

 

[Satchmo]

Caution Will Robinson!... ya I'm that old! I've been there. It's all about the $$$. Once I realized that I was just a regular bank machine and ended the spa visits...guess what...crickets... None of us are special. They are.self focused and $$ driven.

 

[RayHughston]

Im just looking for some action outside of the spa, shes a very attractive girl. Im not really looking into making her a wife or girlfriend. But I think there are places I want to explore with her outside of the spa. She seems to be pretty receptive to the idea of meeting outside for some fun time.

 

[RayHughston]

I would only do that if she has a family and kids of her own. Otherwise, it's a dangerous and very slippery slope.

Don't allow yourself to believe that you're special.

Interesting... Explain... If she has kids of her own, this makes it less slippery?

 

[Social-Misfit]

Not, a good idea Mr hughston, short or long, yer literally playing with fire. You wanna fuck her, keep it on the table at work and pay for it far less at stake.

 

[Darke Steele]

Interesting... Explain... If she has kids of her own, this makes it less slippery?

Perhaps i should have said "a husband/bf and kids.." Because you know it's a short term thing and she's not going sink her meat hooks into you and become difficult to shake off.

When she has something in her life that is more important than you, then you know she's going back to it.

If she doesn't, then you can fall into the 'fairy tale' trap.

 

[RayHughston]

Not, a good idea Mr hughston, short or long, yer literally playing with fire. You wanna fuck her, keep it on the table at work and pay for it far less at stake.

Should i straight up ask during a session? Ive never asked an MPA for any "extras". I dont tell them to do anything but spend extra time on my upper back lol.

Should I do this next time? I dont want to make things weird if she says no

 

[RayHughston]

The thing about this SP, is that shes gorgeous but doesn't exploit it (if that makes sense). She takes horrible photos of herself, she does a bad job marketing herself..Its as if she doesn't KNOW how beautiful she is... Its really endearing (or shes an amazing actress - though I cant imagine why anyone would fake this) her photos online are really old and don't show the added weight she put on over the years (in the right places if you ask me)...Shes approaching 30...I get the feeling that shes really modest and humble (as she knows she has lots of competition at her workplace since the new owners doubled the amount of girls there).

Shes not bitchy, she never asks for tips, she makes me feel like im the most important person in the room. She is super attentive and nurturing. My favourite part is when the session is over, how quick she is to tidy the room and hand me a towel as i exit the shower (big turn on for me). I think thats why i keep coming back.

Plus the fact, she got a new number and made sure to reach out to me (when she didn't really have to).

I dont think she gets as many clients as she once did.

 

[Social-Misfit]

Should i straight up ask during a session? Ive never asked an MPA for any "extras". I dont tell them to do anything but spend extra time on my upper back lol.

Should I do this next time? I dont want to make things weird if she says no

If she likes you as you say, and she starts with the kissing in a session, fooling around etc, see how far you can go, just like with a girl yer dating. It's much same at end of the day, if, she's really in to you. You'll find out quickly if yall need cash, or not

 

[Peanutt8”]

Im just looking for some action outside of the spa, shes a very attractive girl. Im not really looking into making her a wife or girlfriend. But I think there are places I want to explore with her outside of the spa. She seems to be pretty receptive to the idea of meeting outside for some fun time.

I say go for it! but as many have said be mindful this is a business and it’s transactional. Once you keep that in mind your feelings won’t be hurt. If you’re having fun and filling fantasies no harm done. It’s not unheard of that women in this lifestyle get feelings for some clients they’re human but I would bet if money stops so does the fantasy. Keep us updated on how it goes and good luck!!

 

[jizzy1]

if you have the money go for it lol

 

[maxusat]

I’m sorry to say this Brother, but it sounds like she’s hustling you. Massage parlors and escorts have seen a decline in business (as with a lot of other industries).

Decline or more competition? It seems like it's there's a lot trying these days.

 

[Darke Steele]

The thing about this SP, is that shes gorgeous but doesn't exploit it (if that makes sense). She takes horrible photos of herself, she does a bad job marketing herself..Its as if she doesn't KNOW how beautiful she is... Its really endearing (or shes an amazing actress - though I cant imagine why anyone would fake this) her photos online are really old and don't show the added weight she put on over the years (in the right places if you ask me)...Shes approaching 30...I get the feeling that shes really modest and humble (as she knows she has lots of competition at her workplace since the new owners doubled the amount of girls there).

Shes not bitchy, she never asks for tips, she makes me feel like im the most important person in the room. She is super attentive and nurturing. My favourite part is when the session is over, how quick she is to tidy the room and hand me a towel as i exit the shower (big turn on for me). I think thats why i keep coming back.

Plus the fact, she got a new number and made sure to reach out to me (when she didn't really have to).

I dont think she gets as many clients as she once did.

You sound smitten. You should never see her again unless ur looking to have ur bank account drained.

It's a good practice to always have a few in regular rotation so you don't get caught up in feelings for one.

 

[VinnyBulbarino]

Decline or more competition? It seems like it's there's a lot trying these days.

I think a bit of both