What can I do if afriend just wants to massage me and I do not like it?

[khole12]

It feels like I'm being sexually harassed, he is so touchy feely and I am reserved. I have told him I do not like it. He is insistant and just...touchy feely. Help! The next step is maybe the police! I don't want to do that because he just does that, oh by the way, it does physically hurt sometimes! He is a sex offender and does not know his own strength.

 

[My Oh My]

Not that I'm going to be adding any new information here because it looks like everyone else said it pretty clearly. But just to add emphasis... STAY AWAY FROM THIS GUY. Put as many miles between yourself and him. If he keeps trying to massage you even after you've asked him not it, he's doing it as part of some power kick that he gets. If someone was trying to give you a friendly massage or back rub, it shouldn't hurt. If he keeps doing it knowing it hurts you, that just shows how much of a sick bastard he is.

 

[Micol]

Say no molest, while knee balling him.

 

[Beverly (Bea)]

Stop being friends with him. Touching someone against their will and in spite of repeted objections is assalt.
Believe me he does know his own strength. People lie about these things. He feels like he has power over you when he can touch you - this may not even be a sexual thing but it is the sign of someone who you should not be friends with.
Most likely he does not have many 'friends' because he exibits this type of behavior. That is because people have good instints and stay away from people who are controlling or posibly dangerous.
Listen to your instints and choose your friends wisely. Don't be friends with someone because you feel sorry for them. This leads to a lot of pain.

 

[loves2read]

He knows his own strength and he is showing you how powerful he is. It is an intimidation tactic. GET AWAY FROM HIM AND STAY AWAY. You need to talk to the police as this has already escalated to unwanted physical contact with a known SEX OFFENDER. He does NOT respect your wishes and he IS NOT A FRIEND. If you do not do something now later might be to late. Call the police before you get seriously hurt. See if you can find him on this site. Knowledge is power.

http://www.familywatchdog.us/

 

[curouis]

Tell him no! Don't let people harasse you.

 

[deroflame]

You're gonna have to tell him to knock it off straight-out. If he doesn't oblige, get the cops involved. Remember, it's your body and no one should touch you in a way that you feel is wrong.