The psychology behind foot fetishism

[Footman]

Psychology is the science & study of the mind and human behavior. Its immediate goal is to understand behavior and mental processes by researching and establishing both general principles and specific cases. For many the ultimate goal of psychology is to benefit society. Psychologists attempt to understand the role of mental functions in individuals and social behavior while also exploring the physiological and neurobiological processes that underlie certain functions and behaviors. Why do we behave in a certain way? What triggers us to develop abnormal behavioral habits? The most basic theory of Psychology teaches us that 70% to 80% of a human being’s mind, behavioral patterns and personality are formed & crystallized in the first 7 years of our childhood life. Therefore, it can be stated with great conviction that whatever dramatic or influential events which we are exposed to during our early childhood years shall have a profound impact on us later on in our adult life.

Through my research I have uncovered some of the most common reasons why men will develop a foot fetish. Most young little baby boys by nature are naturally quite curious, crawling along the living room or kitchen floor as their mother and perhaps some of her friends might be having tea or just chatting. But to the young little boy, all he sees as he’s crawling along the floor are women’s feet, sometimes dangling outside of the shoe, as he is drawn to the shape and perhaps to the movement of these dangling feet. This is just another example of how a young little boy can first encounter women’s feet, becoming somehow fascinated by them and leading him to develop a foot fetish later on in his adult life. Another common example of how young little boys go on to develop a foot fetish sometimes occurs rather innocently in the following manner. A mother or perhaps a sister places her young baby son or baby brother on the top part of their feet in an innocent playful fashion, allowing the young boy to ride horsy on top of either his mother’s or his sister’s foot. The young little boy, feeling his penis rub against the feet of either his mother or his sister becomes somewhat sexually aroused, henceforth a foot fetishist is born.

My first encounter with women’s feet occurred in perhaps a rather unique yet disturbing and deviant manner, experiencing my half-sister bathe me and then placing her feet in my bath water. This was followed by her fondling my penis with her feet numerous times while lying in bed together.

Although it can be said that most foot fetishist live happy healthy lives, these people are unique in that they are so driven by their fetishist interests to the point that they can’t stay in a relationship, because the fetishist interests takes over their entire lives. Most foot fetishist see their fetish as a gift, something that brings them a lot of enjoyment and pleasure, it’s something that they have and they sometimes don’t understand why other people don’t have a foot fetish. You rarely hear of a foot fetishist getting bored of feet and maybe that’s their problem, they don’t get bored of feet and they usually stay interested in feet forever.

Personally I see my foot fetish as a gift but at the same time as a curse. Allow me to elaborate further. In many ways I do see my foot fetish as a gift, as stated above it does bring me a lot of enjoyment and pleasure. Furthermore, I can very safely engage in sexual activities with sex workers and the like by way of receiving a foot job and feel 100% secure that there is absolutely no risk of contracting any type of sexually transmitted disease for either myself or the woman performing a foot job on me. Another added bonus, I don’t need to install a condom on my soldier when receiving a foot job.

I also see my foot fetish as a curse for the following reasons; it is rather difficult for me to maintain a normal relationship with a woman, unless she would be always willing to satisfactorily fulfill my foot fetish needs and desires. Furthermore I have a double edged fetish, not only a foot fetish but a voyeurism fetish as well. How many women would be willing to participate in my voyeurism fetish by performing a foot job on another man before my very eyes, preferably with a total stranger? Then there is my very strict criterion that I look for when in pursuit of beautiful high arched feet attached to a pair of gorgeous legs, which said criterion already eliminates 99% of the female population. That leaves me with only 1% of the female population, and how many of the remaining 1% of women is either married or involved in a serious relationship with someone else? This is why at the age of 56, I am single and have never been married. My foot fetish has also caused me to suffer both monetarily and emotionally. I calculate that I have spent somewhere in the vicinity of between $150,000 and $200,000 (after tax dollars) during my lifetime in paying for prostitutes, strippers, and masseuses to indulge my foot fetish needs, not to mention all the numerous negative experiences I have endured with some of these evil service providers, not to mention almost being arrested by the police for being found inside a massage parlor/bawdy house, not to mention being placed in the back of a police cruiser after being caught inside a motel room with a prostitute, not to mention coming very close to being beaten up by a very large doorman who worked at the strip club “motel st.pierre” up in St. Jerome.

I confess that paying a sex worker who has no emotional attachment to me is oftentimes a very empty experience emotionally. The fact is the sex worker is basically interested in making money as fast and as easy as possible, and cares very little about you other than making you orgasm as quickly as she possibly can. A smart sex worker who sees the potential of a long term regular client will sometimes go out of her way to please you sexually, by doing the extra things that bring you the greatest amount of pleasure and enjoyment. A perfect example of this is Jessica who now calls herself Sara or Footqueen Sara, the masseuse that I saw from February 2006 to March 2010 and then resurfaced in December of 2011 up until present day. Footqueen Sara has fulfilled my voyeurism fantasy three times and is always willing to do it again. Of course as a sex worker Sara is motivated by money, and she got paid double during the three above mentioned voyeurism sessions that I had organized with her. None the less, Sara has beautiful feet and gorgeous legs that sexually turn me on, plus she always performs an amazing orgasmic foot job on me which has me coming back for more as witnessed by the 235 sessions I’ve had with her thus far.
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Here is a youtube clip speaking about the psychology of a foot fetish >

 

[Lovestoes1]

I feel your pain lol .. Seems like a good day to seek out a footjob . any leads for toronto /Mississauga ?

 

[woodyspa6]

good blog