Should I continue massaging my aunt's feet?

[Bahram Modi]

I use to massage my aunt’s feet when I was younger and she liked it a lot. She was 27 at that time and newly married. I was just 15. Things have changed a lot since then. She is 39 now. However, she still wants me to massage her feet as massaged earlier. I have no problem massaging her feet but she is very inconsiderate that sometimes she even summons me in front of visitors and guests to massage her feet without realising that I am grown up now. I don’t want to disregard her order still I don’t want to do anything that reflect poor on my self esteem. Please suggest what should I do?

 

[kcaramelsweet]

SAME! ok so i'm 12 now (11 at the time) and my aunt wanted me to massage her feet, all the time. she is 27 and newly married. i had to do it otherwise she would considerate rude but i still regreted it. then my uncle got a job promotion to work for mulberry in dubai as the manager. a year later we went to visit him in dubai and my aunt STILL wanted me to massage her feet and now her head. i just said that my hand got sprained and they ran out of bandages. it didn't work ;( so i just confronted her saying that i am now a pre teen (in your case adult) and i think that it is time i took a break to help you with other stuff instead of massaging your feet like i could help with the dishes. would you rather get the dishes done with help or do them all on your own with your aching feet.

or simple solution buy her a foot massager or take her to a spa to massage her feet.

 

[maria r]

Would she understand or listen if you talked to her about it? Seems like she is taking it for granted. Point it out to her that your an adult now and demand respect, especially when she is getting a free feet massage.

 

[Zoe Stevens]

its your choice. But i would start charging money for a massage, say its your new business

can you aswer my question please http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtRaNO4BPOuBdZZXVYap2tzty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20110814034800AAe8YKh