Should a married or attached woman get a full body massage from another male?

[Brian]

Should a woman who is married or attached get a full body massage from another male? To me, full body massages should only be given by the same sex if someone is married or attached. It seems to be too erotic of a situation to have the opposite sex doing it. Thoughts?

 

[A Man]

Frist off...if I get a full body massage I wouldn't want a man giving it to me
It all depends on what you consider a full body massage. A women laying naked on the table with a towel covering private areas and getting a body massage by a professional minus the private areas is what is supposed to happen. If you have ever had a full body massage you will notice that they are SUPPOSED to have the customers private areas covered with a towel at all times and are not supposed to touch those areas. That is part of the regulations. Unfortunatly that doesn't always happen and depending on the male and depending on the women they may get a little closer then expected. This could jeapordise the person giving the massage so they are not going to just start feeling your wife up out of nowhere. Your wife would have to be willing for that to happen and the male giving the massage would have to be willing to put his job on the line. Now Women say it's just relaxing...for some yes it's relaxing. Women are not always in to sex when it involves touching. They actually don't mind getting touched for relaxation. As men this is a hard concept to understand.....now that being said there are a lot of female sl@t bags that want this guy to go further. So I would look at your wife and make that decision. To me I think my wife enjoys it for the massage but also enjoys the touch of male hands (that's just me speculating). Either way I'll still buy her masages and I don't care if it's a man. I'm comfortable in my marriage so if a guy works her up and she comes home wanting sex it's all worth it and no...just because she likes a touch here and there doesn't mean she'll cheat (agina just speculating).

 

[SamSongs]

Definitely not. Thats the whole purpose of being married. To be only one persons. TO be touched by only one person

 

[A H]

Sorry folks, but if a full body massage includes massaging the breasts or the genitals, then hell NO, that's not ok for a married woman(or man)! What is wrong with people? If some man is massaging those parts, how can I try to say to my husband: "Chill dear, it's just a massage" Why not go and get a simple back massage or go to a spa if you want to "relax?"

Please! You all know darn well you ain't going there to "relax" and you're probably picking the "hottest" looking guy to give it to you too! Let me ask you this: If it were some old, fat, bald, hairy guy giving out the massage, would you still take it? I doubt it!-lol.

 

[HangingChad]

I've gotten many of them. It's nothing sexual.

 

[Yadeela]

If he's a professional and she pays for it.

 

[spaghetti]

Helllllll no.

 

[Ash]

No. Our body is a vessel. A gift. And when we chose another person from the opposite sex (or the same in some cases) we are giving them our gift. But what is a gift, if everyone else has already got it? More of a party favor if you ask me.

Anyway, i think that a girl (i am one, by the way) should ONLY receive any physical affection from the person they love. Dont you think that the guy that is massaging her doesn't have "thoughts" running through his mind while he is running his hands down her FULL body?

yeah. right. there is somethings you should only share with your spouse. no exceptions. it is soo easy to request a girl to massage you.

 

[♥♥]

i dunno, are you trying to say male doctors shouldn't exist..
i had a male nurse be all up in my downstairs to check if i was dilated enough to give birth, and ya know what.. it all happened in front of hubby..
so to answer your question.. if that's their profession then it doesn't matter what gender they are.. it's a job and somebody's gotta to do it..

 

[Debbie]

if they are professional and have a very reputable place, I don't think it matters

 

[Wisen Smart]

A serious and professional male can do it, why not. Even if you are single, Married or not, erotic thoughts are only in the mind. There are erotic massage places for hire, true.....but then, that is a different ball game altogether.

 

[Is it summer yet??]

Who cares who gives them, they feel GREAT!!!

 

[Icarius]

Of course. But immediately after she should be stripped naked in front of her town and have all its citizens cast stones at the wretched whore

 

[Mrs. S]

If the person is a registered massage therapist then what's the problem? Should all attached women have female doctors too?

 

[chiliredkitty]

Are we talking about a half drunk dude in the back bedroom, or a professional masseuse in a reputable establishment? Cause a good masseuse can be as hard to find as a good doctor. A person you can relax with and trust completely is a priceless find. And you would not expect your wife to turn down a gynecologist because he was a male. These men are not impressed by your wife's body, they see everyone else's wife's too.

 

[daljack -a girl]

Once a month I get a full body massage from a male or female masseuse, whichever one is available.

I'm married.....it's strictly professional.....and my husband has no problem with it because he knows I would never do anything to jeopardize what we have.

 

[chuckstervandam]

Would you feel comfortable with your husband there with you or if the same was being performed on your husband ,if your thoughts are erotic you might want to reconsider the massage unless you are attracted to other women as well.

 

[Elliott N]

My wife sees a masseuse occasionally. He is very professional and aware that she is married. I had a massage recently from a female because the regular masseuse was out sick. I did not find it erotic at all, but it sure did feel good to my muscles.

 

[americ.adian]

I don't think it is suppose to be erotic. It is suppose to be relaxing and comforting. I think it is totally fine as long as you don't make it a big deal.

Remember, it is what you make it. If you make it erotic then it will be. If you keep it professional then it wont cross that line.

 

[my my metrocard]

in a professional situation it's not erotic it's relaxing.