We are talking about FOBs here. Asian women that have become accustomed to the Canadian culture do not have a problem with shaving and DATY.
I know that in certain cultures where public bath houses are used often, it can be embarrasing to walk in shaved where everyone can see. Also, certain Asian men consider a shaved crotch a sign that the woman is no longer innocent.
I have convinced all my Asian exs' to shave as I hate when that stray hair gets caught in the back of my throat leaving me hacking like a cat with a fur ball. On the other hand, I do find that my asian exs' became more stubbly than my non-asian exs' as their hair is more coarse.
Traditional Asians are not as sexually liberated. I had to teach a few of them about foreplay, oral sex, DATY, anal sex etc... as they were used to guys jumping on top, pumping away and going to sleep right away. This is because most asian countries are still Male dominated. This has been getting better over the last decade, but I heard that it is not an overnight solution.
My point is, you can convince them about shaving and DATY if you take your time, win their trust and ask nicely.
Here is another interesting fact. Most Asian women will tell you that they are a virgin.