or send it do lally...
be very careful... lupus can be a very painful condition.
The one thing that I would advise first in terms of knowledge and I apologise if you already know this, but one of the issues that you have with lupus is that if you overstrain a muscle or do any damage etc it does not heal correctly like someone without lupus would and can result in more pain....its not technically what happens but is the easiest way to explain it...also over time arthritis tends to come hand in hand with lupus.
so first time massage, keep it short and simple, even if the pressure feels ok to both dont overdo it, assess it the next day and then if all ok next time you have a benchmark to work too...
hope that helps.
Tigs
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