My little sisters male babysitter massages her nude, skinny dips with her

[linda]

and bathes her. Help? I want your alls opinions. My 5 year old sister loves to be massaged by her 17 year old (male) babysitter who I will call "Norm". He takes her clothes off her when he massages her because he says its easier when shes nude. He massages her back, legs and butt. But then yesterday I come home nad they are both skinny dipping together. I feel this is horribly inappropriate but my mom and dad have no problem with it. They say Norm is a church going Christian who would never think of doing anything inappropriate to her. They say he is just having fun and its all innocent. So what should i do? Is it just me or is this wrong? Someone help me?

I am a 21 year old girl and I would babysit her myself if I wasn't always busy with my friends.

 

[Isaac's Mommy]

You're the worst troll I've ever seen.

You're suppose to come up with a some what believable story.

 

[Bec]

That is so wrong. Massaging her is weird enough but taking off her CLOTHES with the excuse that it is easier is just twisted. Tell your parents THAT. There is absolutely no reason to take off her clothes. People get massages done with clothes on. She is a 5 year old girl who can't defend herself or control the situation. And skinny dipping crosses a line. There is absoluetly no reason for him to take his clothes off.

This could easily go down a very dangerous path (If it hasn't already) You have to keep impressing upon your parents that he can't babysit her anymore. Do not let this go. Do not dismiss your feelings. Even if there is a slight chance it is all innocent IT NEEDS TO STOP.

 

[Jeanmarie]

Did they know HE was nude too?
If they do nothing I'd tell someone else!!

This is nuts!

I don't care if he's the pope it's wrong!

 

[Psycho-psych]

this a pretty good troll question. if not, call the police.

 

[Tiffany]

that is bad i feel so bad for your sister and your parents are sick grow up and take care of your sister your self ugh

 

[ladedamom]

He's using the phrase "church going christian" to disguise what he is- a child molestor. You need to report it and pitch in and watch your sister for your parents when they need it instead of running around with friends. This isn't appropriate and it isn't acceptable. It is because of stuff like this that parents don't hire male babysitters.

 

[Sarah <3]

thats definately inapropriate,.
ur parents are idiots & if anything else happens its their fault.
she'll remember this when shes older & realize it wasnt right,
& she'll resent them for it.
maybe u should b less busy wth ur friends once in a while & babysit her urself.
or have ur friends over while u babysit.
iv done that.

 

[VFKNerd]

This is in NO WAY normal. I would fire, or "boot" the sitter from the job immediately. If you do nothing about it, it could possibly, in worst case scenario, result in possible forced sex. Good for you. This is sad. This man is a Christian and he is molesting a five year old girl. I am a Christian as well, but crap like this was NEVER what God intended. And your parents? They are very wrong. They apparently judge people on assumptions. Sit her yourself, and I would recommend telling SOMEONE. A doctor, ANYBODY who could help your sister. If this gets ANY further, call the police. No one on this Earth should deserve this. This man deserves to be arrested. Please, take this advice and other that people are commenting.
Although there isn't much I can do, I am terribly sorry.

 

[Winter Glory]

I simply find it hard to believe that your parents are okay with their 5 year old being rubbed down naked and skinny dipping with a 17 year old boy..
IF this is for real...take her to the police.
Both the boy and your parents need to be punished for what they've done.

Your parents especially for endangerment.

 

[LadyCatherine]

so you would rather spend time with your friends then help keep your little sister from being F*CKED by some guy..

cool for you..

 

[s0LuT1oN]

Yeah and all those catholic priests caught red handed molesting little boys were church goers also. Hypocrisy is not a myth, lol.

 

[One week til Candice!!]

it seems to me that if you were that concerned about it would would tell your parents that from now on you would watch her...if you were that concerned you would drop your friends long enough to watch her...friends are not as important then your family...including an innocent little 5 year old.....

just pray that nothing is happening.....

 

[Alan]

it doesn't matter if he's a church going guy . many church going people commit crimes all the time and some often use it as a front to cover who they really are. are your parents crazy ? this is totally inappropriate and not much different than child porn . your parents could be charged for allowing this behavior to go on as well as the 17 year old . i suggest you try to get some proof like with a phone camera and take it to the authorities . you will be saving your sister from this creep and hopefully his behavior hasn't already lead to other things .that is soooo wrong and you need to do something to stop it now