Hi, I'm 13 years old and i loan a 11.3 hh shetland cross pony and i was wondering if there are any massages that i could use on her so we can bond more and for her to calm down and trust me. She gets a little worked up sometimes over little things and i just want some massages to do on her, so if you have an suggestions or websites then please put them in your answer! Thankyouuu!!