Ladies, do you like getting sensually touched/massaged?

[_Hill_]

Ok here's the thing:

We're both 17, and both each other's first bf/gf (that's why I'm asking). I respect her for who she is and I never want to do anything uncomfortable for her. We've been dating for 3 weeks now.

A few night's ago we were laying on my bed and just talking and having a conversation. Then I started to run my hands through her hair (I've done this before), but then I took it a step further and started massaging her ear and ear lobe (we were laying on our sides face to face). Then I massaged her neck and slowly worked my way down her shoulder/back. Then I rubbed her lower back, and went back up her side and met her ear again. I repeated this a few times. We were like this for probably 20 mins or more....

She told me a few days prior, that she had a fear of being touched. But she said she's starting to get over it when she's with me. And while rubbing her I noticed she had shivers down her spine. I told her I would stop if she felt uncomfortable... she didn't say anything. We were silent during most this. Eventually she fell asleep wrapped around my arms.

Do you think she liked it, or did I take it too far?
Would you like it if a guy you liked did this (keep in mind this is the first time either of us has experienced this)?

Thanks

 

[Miley]

lol she probally got shivers down her spine because she is ticklish lol, but she is your girlfriend i dont think she minds when you give her a massage or whatever

 

[meemee]

yeah most girls love that. and if she were uncomfortable she wouldn't have fallen asleep. that's cute. ))))))

 

[Vanessa]

wow,c ute........... well she said shes getting over it so you shoud keep on going

 

[:) smile (:]

yeah you are fine. she liked it other wise it wouldnt have put her to sleep!

 

[Victoria T]

Awh thats so sweet! I think she would like it! I would if someone did it to me.

 

[Clare-e]

awww u r a really good bf, she prob did like this and obv trusts u 2 let her inihibitions and guard down. obtw most girls wud love this!!

 

[Cardigannn]

she liked it.
she shudderdd because its a feeling of 'oh my thats rather nice'
bless you man :]
you do sound like a good boyfriend who cares for his girlfriend an awful lot
good luck to the both of you

 

[dani]

She loved it.
Your a good bf

 

[Alexis]

I think she loved it. It helped her relax (probably why she fell asleep).The shivers down her spine were because she liked it (Like when you are touched tenderly and you get a jolt of excitement through your body) You did not take it too far at all! You are a great bf for doing that for her!

 

[jackies]

You sound like a very nice young gentleman. And I think that she realizes that you respect her and that allows her to become more comfortable with you. Keep up the good work. And it is nice to see a young man that does not want to offending a lady.

 

[Molly]

me? i would love it. i wish someone would do that for me but im only 13. no i dont think you took it too far. sometimes girls/women can just not talk as a sign of comfort and warmth.
hope it helps molly

 

[Love Always]

I think she liked it. She probably would have tried to put space between you guys if she didn't like it. And I think it was a great idea to start with the hair. Start with the hair then slowly make your way to her shoulders then to her back. Don't just pounce on her and start rubbing her back. That would be awkward.