This is an old fashioned issue in my opinion. As long as you are knowledgeable and professional you will succeed in any field. Massage, like any health profession is a matter of choice, and clients will come to you if they hear that you are great at massage, are very professional, and love what you do. I have worked with, worked on, and been worked on, by many different male and female therapists. Everyone has a unique style, a niche preference, and they are all very happy with what they do.