Is it cheating if I get a massage where the massuese uses soft touch to

[alcor69_69]

excite me, then I masturbate? I have gotten massages at several salons/spas in the past and currently. The massueses I have used generally use a combination of soft touch and deep tissue massage. The soft touch is usually along my back, butt and inner thighs. She will then leave me in the room at the end for several minutes and tells me to rest and leave when I am ready. I rest and masturbate, and then leave. They always leave the room at the end. I just assume that is what this time is for.
Would this be cheating because I get excited, and masturbate?

 

[cherry kitty]

No it's not cheating. A massage is very sensual and it's normal for your body to react the way it does. As long as she doesn't give you the happy ending herself then it's not cheating.

 

[Mamita]

Well you feel guilty in order to ask this. Why not just have your woman do it for you at home so she can finish you off.

 

[tuhreza]

No, not cheating.

 

[♥BumbleBee♥]

It isn't cheating per se, but if my bf or husband or whatever got aroused by another woman, i would feel pretty upset.

Why not ask your wife/gf to give you a massage at home? Then you could do the same for her?

 

[BabeHart]

You can get excited and masturbate to your own thoughts, to erotica you see online, to a sexy scene on the TV...are those cheating? Of course not.

You are left alone at the end to relax because massage is relaxing. They don't leave you alone for the purpose of masturbating, but if you choose to do that...so be it. Many people like to just lie there and doze or be in a twilight zone for a few mins...instead of jumping up and dressing and dashing out.

If the massuese touches you sexually or encourages sexual behavior, that would be crossing the line (if you are in a relationship with someone else).

If you would be okay if your partner had the same experience and did the same thing, then it's no big deal...