How to get extra service from your RMT providers?

[Spies101]

Jistaguy19: "However, there are many that offer legit massage and with time and for a few, they offer more. This is the elusive treasure many of us search for."

How to find elusive treasure or what you need to have to succeed to find elusive treasure?

Is it money, personality or just you need to have special skills for that?

 

[Guy2013]

Jistaguy19: "However, there are many that offer legit massage and with time and for a few, they offer more. This is the elusive treasure many of us search for."

How to find elusive treasure or what you need to have to succeed to find elusive treasure?

Is it money, personality or just you need to have special skills for that?

All of the above, and some plain luck as well (right place, right time)

 

[bigbill]

You'll have to start by developing a rapport, and that means becoming a regular. Invest time and money in sessions, and be very subtle and take things very slow. Go in thinking that there is no chance, because most of the time, there is not. I reached the point of being comfortable asking some legit RMTs about the possibility of going out of bounds, and except in very rare cases, was turned down. If you've done things right, the turn down will be done without them being offended. If you've done things right and you're lucky and the stars align, you'll proceed to the "promised land."

It helps to have impeccable hygiene, a decent body and always being respectful of their boundaries. A nice body? Wait, that counts? Sure, women are just like us - 90% of our conversations on this forum are about physical appearance, you don't think women care about what men look like? Hells yeah they do.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

You'll have to start by developing a rapport, and that means becoming a regular. Invest time and money in sessions, and be very subtle and take things very slow. Go in thinking that there is no chance, because most of the time, there is not. I reached the point of being comfortable asking some legit RMTs about the possibility of going out of bounds, and except in very rare cases, was turned down. If you've done things right, the turn down will be done without them being offended. If you've done things right and you're lucky and the stars align, you'll proceed to the "promised land."

It helps to have impeccable hygiene, a decent body and always being respectful of their boundaries. A nice body? Wait, that counts? Sure, women are just like us - 90% of our conversations on this forum are about physical appearance, you don't think women care about what men look like? Hells yeah they do.

It's possible. Don't ask any "sex" related questions when you are with her. Just talk about ordinary things in life and fun popular topics. The trick is not to ask or imply about SEX. She WILL guide you slowly to the promise land. But it will take lots of years. When a woman is horny, she needs the human , reall emotional connection (zero porn attitude or suggestions or pervertness, she will go for it when she feels like it and will allow you to do some heavy touch and grabbing and she give erotic massage. Just be witty and polite and fun. And make sure you don't come accross as a pervert.

 

[Deleted member 72001]

.........Wait, that counts? Sure, women are just like us - 90% of our conversations on this forum are about physical appearance, you don't think women care about what men look like? Hells yeah they do.

Aaaaand that’s why being funny, polite, and not cheap, might get you to the finish line as well.
I ain’t got the body, so I better have the brains, balls, and budget.

 

[Bullet]

I ain’t got the body, so I better have the brains, balls, and budget.

IMO most Asians are Money Driven. I don't have the looks or body. But I do have very good hygiene, that and a Fat wallet Helps.
You would be surprised on how many in their ad says NO EXTRAS. And you get extras

 

[Bob the Knob]

I have said this before, on a first appointment, when I bring out the hourly fee, I make sure the rmt sees my extra cash so she knows the potential available,

Very successful. Just keep in mind a couple extra 5's won't get their attention, lol

 

[JacobB]

I think dressing nice helps. I work in a office so showing up in a dress shirt and dress shoes makes a good impression. If you dress a bit scruffy they will be unsure if you have the ability to pay unless they know you. I've noticed the difference when I've worn jeans and a T shirt. And I was actually asked to pay in advance. Being comfortable in your own skin as I don't care how hot they are and if they see me nakid. I think if you show any shyness or timidness it put doubts in their minds it's all about confidence.

 

[Qster]

I always show up clean and presentable, like attending a real date and ask politely. I do not mind getting "no" as an answer, I am sure the ladies have said "no" to many of their customers and are used to it. Please do remember that "no" does mean "NO". Don't believe everything you read here or at least treat all intel from review sites as YMMV. I have heard too many stories from the ladies about customers who won't take "no" for an answer or a extreme customer who showed up with printed reviews demanding the same services. Just remember, once a lady said "no" and you persist, it is call harassment or worse. Sometimes, a man may think that he is being charming but the lady has a different story to tell afterwards; my personal belief is that once a lady said "no", the matter should be dead unless she reopens it herself.

 

[Deleted member 72001]

I always show up clean and presentable, like attending a real date and ask politely. I do not mind getting "no" as an answer, I am sure the ladies have said "no" to many of their customers and are used to it. Please do remember that "no" does mean "NO". Don't believe everything you read here or at least treat all intel from review sites as YMMV. I have heard too many stories from the ladies about customers who won't take "no" for an answer or a extreme customer who showed up with printed reviews demanding the same services. Just remember, once a lady said "no" and you persist, it is call harassment or worse. Sometimes, a man may think that he is being charming but the lady has a different story to tell afterwards; my personal belief is that once a lady said "no", the matter should be dead unless she reopens it herself.

Amen to that.

 

[bigbill]

Please do remember that "no" does mean "NO".

This, so much this. I've had a relationship with a masseuse and hearing about guys coming in and grabbing ass and talking about blowjobs the second they hit the table was enlightening to me about what a bunch of clowns we can be. She does extras, hj only, but you're out of luck when you come on like that.

 

[edmonpo]

Money can not always buy everything.
Some of my regular RMT told me, some guy going around and offering money for fs. He was telling he's getting fs around for that amount of $$$.
Is this really can work or what?

 

[Guy2013]

Sometimes it simply boils down to patience. About a decade ago I started visiting a southside RMT, nice looking woman, mature (some would say an auntie).
She dressed modestly, slacks and a top, not hint of cleavage. Provided a really good massage, always draped with a towel, a small one but none the less adequate to cover the parts. I asked if I could remove it and got a quick but firm "NO".

Enjoyed her massage so much I became a regular, after some time I noticed that she was working lower on the abdomen, higher on the thighs, but I said nothing as I thought she is simply getting more comfortable with me. Then one day she accidentally brushed the LG, which was lying against one thigh under the towel, was nice but thought nothing of it.

On the next visit, it happened a number of times, and this caused the LG to start to stand at attention, nothing to serious, but it was obvious he was aroused. so while she was oiling her hands up and not looking I slipped the towel to the side a bit so the LG was partially exposed. I assumed she would cover him up right away, but to my surprise she did not. the massage continued, but now she was continuously brushing up against the shaft and it was hard as a rock. The massage continued with her massaging my lower abdomen, lower than she had ever gone before, finger brushing the base of shaft under the towel. So in for a penny, in for a pound, I removed the towel leaving a raging hard on fully exposed, not a word said. She continued, my cock up on my belly, her working my abdomen and her hand going under my cock. I then took her hand and placed it on the shaft, not a word said and she proceeded to provide a very nice ending.

Future visits were without towel, always a nice finish but never a word said about it. On one visit I finally told her it was very nice what she did for me and asked her why it took so many visits. She told me it was not something she ever offered, but I was a "very nice man" and hadn't asked or pressured her and it was obvious to her that I was aroused by her and this made her feel good, she giggled that I was much bigger than the past men in her life, she also asked me never to tell anyone. On future visits I was allowed to undo her bra and play and suck on here breasts. Unfortunately, she eventually moved on.

Now for the patience part, whole process took about 2 years and maybe 40 visits. Never expected anything other than legit massage and was pleasantly surprised

 

[tklterry]

I have a system to check how a masseuse feels is when she is standing against my arm dangling down the side of the table I put my hand on her calf, if she's ok with that I slowly massage back of the leg a bit and bring hand higher on her leg. I she's not into it she will say no or move quickly far enough away that you don't touch her.
There are some people who will let you touch back of leg to the butt but nothing else so you have to accept and stay within the limits that the girl is comfortable in doing!

 

[Rubmegood]

I have a system to check how a masseuse feels is when she is standing against my arm dangling down the side of the table I put my hand on her calf, if she's ok with that I slowly massage back of the leg a bit and bring hand higher on her leg. I she's not into it she will say no or move quickly far enough away that you don't touch her.
There are some people who will let you touch back of leg to the butt but nothing else so you have to accept and stay within the limits that the girl is comfortable in doing!

What he said!!

 

[Guy2013]

I

I have a system to check how a masseuse feels is when she is standing against my arm dangling down the side of the table I put my hand on her calf, if she's ok with that I slowly massage back of the leg a bit and bring hand higher on her leg. I she's not into it she will say no or move quickly far enough away that you don't touch her.
There are some people who will let you touch back of leg to the butt but nothing else so you have to accept and stay within the limits that the girl is comfortable in doing!

I often use the same system

 

[speckle2015]

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I often use the same system

I thought that was my move.

 

[JAV4fun]

I always show up clean and presentable, like attending a real date and ask politely. I do not mind getting "no" as an answer, I am sure the ladies have said "no" to many of their customers and are used to it. Please do remember that "no" does mean "NO". Don't believe everything you read here or at least treat all intel from review sites as YMMV. I have heard too many stories from the ladies about customers who won't take "no" for an answer or a extreme customer who showed up with printed reviews demanding the same services. Just remember, once a lady said "no" and you persist, it is call harassment or worse. Sometimes, a man may think that he is being charming but the lady has a different story to tell afterwards; my personal belief is that once a lady said "no", the matter should be dead unless she reopens it herself.

Q heard many stories from the ladies too with cash and rubber on the table expected to have same services like AMP.

 

[Albertaman]

In discovering the special situations, the YMMV RMT connections, rapport has a lot to do with it. I'm not talking about pseudo RMT places which have menus. But a true RMT that does not seek out tips for extras on a frequent basis. If there is mutual rapport and chemistry, the KEY is total TRUST, 100% DISCRETION. It's their career and reputation at stake. If married, even more. These unique situations come about once in a blue moon, but they do arise. If more people learned how to be discreet, they might taste the pleasures more often. Women have a way of knowing as to whom they can trust to maintain discretion.


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