This will likely stir the fires..........nothing like a bit of controversy to keep the forum interesting;
I will toss in on this because I have a bit of a "hot button" on this subject and because I failed to make my intended point in this particular regard in my post "Towel, Sheet, Naked, Erections....." etc.
My conviction is that if one is to provide a massage of all the muscles and tendons of the client's body, that pretty much means ALL of them. If one is giving a foot massage or a head massage....need I continue? I believe that if the CLIENT is comfortable - for example - allowing the practitioner to massage the upper leg tendons ALL THE WAY, that the fact that doing this may mean one's hands approach the vacinity of the client's genital area should NOT be a reason to stop short. This is easily done while still covering the genitals, and doing so does not magically transform the session into something sexual, even if one should "bump" into a private bit (through the cover of course) on occassion in the process.
I am very much aware of the traditional teachings about "how far" a practitioner should go in this regard.......and, to put it in a very American way, most of it is academic bull**** that does not reflect the real world of the massage business. I have had plenty of massage sessions by massage students, recent massage graduates and those not very experienced since their training. Some omit touching all of the muscles and tendons because that is what they were taught was "proper", some because that is the limit of their personal comfort level. In either case, the massage is incomplete and of questionable value for the money the client spends.
I respect those that teach massage, but on this specific subject, they are doing the student a great disservice, not to mention the negative impact on the client's. This is not unlike the fact that one that has taken driver training does not eventually continue to drive exactly like they were taught.
These timid sessions will absolutely result in a considerable amount of loss of potential repeat business, but that is not the most compelling reason for doing it correctly. The reason to give a proper massage is that doing so is what a PROFESSIONAL is paid to do. I think that all those that can't bring themselves to do it correctly should switch to giving facials.
One is either a PROFESSIONAL or has no business being in this business.
Just my opinion................and foder for the members I'm quite sure.