At a ymmv place, a lot of times it is connection. A RMT once told me, without a word, a new guy placed his hand on her shoulder trying to nudge her closer, then tried again to reach for her bra, she instantly got offended and kicked him out. Many of us have seen her, there are plenty of posts about her exploits, she is one of the nicest and most generous licensed lady around. Even with that, if someone does something she doesn't like, it is instant kick and ban. Sometimes, life is just simpler at a guaranteed place like AMP or Micro.