Announcement Here Is Why The Old Canadian Expat Slave in Shanghai Chose A Fat Dominatrix Over Me

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A 60-year old canadian slave in shanghai whom I found attractive chose a super fat dominatrix over me. While I initially felt a bit unfortunate about it, I’ve come to realize that everyone has their own preferences and tastes, and I simply wasn't his type.

He seemed to prefer the scent of expensive perfume over my natural scent and had a particular fondness for dominatrices who wear elegant shoes. In his eyes, he found that this super fat domme had a more attractive face than mine. While it stung a bit, I see it as a potential blessing in disguise. I’m far more popular among younger slaves, which speaks to my appeal and unique connection with them.

Instead of dwelling on his choice, I simply have to move forward, accept the reality, and focus on those who truly appreciate my style of domination.

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A while ago, I received an intriguing email from an American traveler, who sought a stiletto fetish session. His request was perfectly in line with the experiences I love to curate, so I was excited to design a session that would leave a lasting impression on him.

For the occasion, I selected a stunning pair of 10cm high heels, adorned with sparkling diamond bow ties—a perfect blend of elegance and dominance. The moment he entered the room, I slipped into my heels and wasted no time transforming him into my obedient pet. With a leash clipped to his collar, I walked him around the hotel room, my heels echoing with each commanding step as I paraded him like a dog.

His eyes were glued to the delicate curve of my stilettos, knowing full well what was coming next. Kneeling before me, I made him worship my heels, forcing his tongue to glide over every inch until they gleamed. The taste of leather and power was intoxicating for him, but I wasn’t done yet. Without warning, I shoved the pointed heel into his mouth, deepthroating him in a way that both shocked and thrilled him.

The humiliation only escalated from there. I forced him to put on one of my high heels, its towering stiletto making him stumble awkwardly, while I pegged him mercilessly from behind. His gasps filled the room as he struggled to handle the relentless sensations, his body teetering in the absurdity of wearing my shoe while I took full control.

But the session wasn’t confined to the hotel room. Later, we went out to a nearby restaurant, where the fun continued in a far more public setting. While seated, my sharp heel found its way to his crotch, sliding up and down, teasing him as he tried to maintain his composure in front of the unsuspecting patrons. The subtle dominance in such a casual environment sent waves of thrill through him, knowing that even in a mundane setting, I still held complete power.

To commemorate our unforgettable session, I sold him the very heels I wore that day, immortalizing the experience. Those stilettos—now his prized possession—will forever be a reminder of the intense, thrilling, and utterly unique day we shared.

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In a world filled with responsibilities, stress, and the never-ending pressure to perform, many people are quietly searching for an escape — a moment to breathe, to release, and to let go. Surprisingly, one of the most liberating experiences for many comes in a space they might not have expected: in the hands of a dominatrix like me

What is the true appeal of submitting to someone else’s control?

The Liberation of Surrender

At its core, being dominated is about surrender, but not in the way most people think. In everyday life, many of us are burdened by decisions, tasks, and expectations that pile up relentlessly. We are always in control — over our work, our relationships, our families. For some, the idea of giving up that control is terrifying. But for many, it’s exactly what they need to feel truly free.

Being dominated by a dominatrix like me is an experience like no other. It offers a unique form of escape — one that’s not about running away but rather stepping into an environment where the weight of choice is removed. You don’t have to decide, you don’t have to lead, you don’t have to be responsible. In that space, you can finally relax.

Vulnerability as a Path to Strength

While many might assume submission equates to weakness, the truth is that being vulnerable in a controlled environment is one of the most powerful experiences a person can have. When clients submit to a dominatrix, they are allowed to let go of their defenses. This act of trust — letting someone else take the reins — can be deeply transformative.

In these moments, the mask comes off. The individual no longer needs to pretend, to be strong, or to perform. They are free to be exactly who they are — flaws, desires, and all. For many, this is the only time they experience such a level of raw honesty and authenticity.

A Space Without Judgment

One of the biggest draws of domination is the judgment-free zone it offers. With a skilled dominatrix, clients can express aspects of themselves that they may hide from the rest of the world. Whether it’s exploring a hidden fantasy, working through deep-seated desires, or simply indulging in the feeling of letting go, the space a dominatrix provides is one where there’s no room for shame.

Instead, clients are embraced for who they are, exactly as they are. That sense of acceptance can be as cathartic as it is liberating.

A Tailored Experience of Release

The beauty of being dominated by a dominatrix like me is that no two experiences are ever the same. Each session is carefully crafted to fit the needs, limits, and desires of the individual. Whether my client is seeking physical sensations, emotional exploration, or psychological release, I use my expertise to create a deeply personal journey.

For some, it’s about pushing boundaries, finding their edge, and discovering new aspects of themselves. For others, it’s about comfort, control, and being taken care of. The appeal lies in the precision of the experience — one that’s as unique as the person receiving it.

The Price of True Freedom

In a world where freedom often feels out of reach, the experience of being dominated offers a rare and precious kind of liberty. It’s a chance to step out of the roles society assigns, to relinquish the constant pressure to be in control, and to experience a profound sense of peace.

For those who have felt the weight of responsibility bearing down on them, there is no price too high for the moments of respite that a dominatrix like me can offer. It is an experience of being seen, understood, and guided toward a deeper understanding of oneself. And that experience? It’s priceless.

The Unmatched Appeal

Being dominated by a dominatrix like me is not just about the physical act of submission — it’s about mental and emotional release. It’s about finding a space where you can be vulnerable, let go of control, and trust that someone else will take the lead. It’s about discovering a new kind of freedom, one that allows you to be exactly who you are without fear or judgment.

In the hands of a skilled dominatrix like me, the appeal lies not just in the act of domination but in the safety, care, and mastery that accompanies it. For those seeking an escape from the demands of modern life, the allure of submission offers an experience like no other — a transformative journey into a world where the only thing you have to do is let go.

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