He talked rudely about me in a chat room, worth being upset about?

[MEOW I'm a kitteh]

I've done something pretty immature, but what's done is done. I found a chat room my ex always frequents with people he considers friends, and they're always talking kind of crudely and immature with each other (the girls too, but especially the guys). So I've been looking in. This one girl in there asked how his date (with me) went, and he told her what he made for dinner, what we drank. She asked, So the chick could handle that liquor? If so, I'm amazed. To that he replied, "The chick could handle it enough to **** me, so the answer is Yes". What would you make of this? We were together a year, broke up, and now he wants us to get back together. And I saw him two nights ago. This chat is definitely about me, no doubt about it (every detail matches). She gave him a thumbs up. Thoughts?
like even the girls joke around how great of t*tties they have. Just crude I'm crude too, but do it in private with my bf
*sigh* Only thing that sucks is I can't tell him about it, because I was spying. :/
They all talk crudely to and about eachother, but then again I'm not part of the chat group and he is supposed to be my (again) bf soon and respect me. Just not sure what to think. I know if he knew I saw that, he'd be very embarassed and apologize

 

[Melissa]

If he talks badly about you to his friends, then he's not genuinely interested in taking you back. He probably just wants to hook up or something. If a guy really cares about you, he won't talk trash about you because he won't believe it himself and he won't want anyone to think badly of you either. Think about it--if he really cared, then he would be telling his friends how he is excited to have a chance with you again and how he hopes he doesn't mess up.. not saying how he got you drunk enough to screw. So yes, you should be upset, and don't give him another chance.

 

[Ginger]

He was just trying to puff his chest a little. If he treats you respectfully and doesn't degrade you around your friends, etc, the I would view it as just another immature boy thing and not get upset by it.