Good vs bad sessions?

[Ana Maria]

Closed.

 

[JB Bats]

Platinum huh, well that’s almost like the unicorn, but not quite. Those sessions are out there, I’ve experienced them.

You’ll probably get a wide variety of answers as to what makes a session special due to personal preferences.

For me, it’s a strong connection that happens either in the first or second visit and strengthens with each visit. A combination of GFE and PSE probably describes the physical acts best for me. Total respect, total pleasure.

 

[JB Bats]

Gold for me...maybe a step, below Platinum, but not far off.

I’ve had different types of Gold sessions. I repeat with one MPA who from the moment she enters the room, her tongue is firmly implanted in my cheek and then down my throat before I can even say hi and it’s like that until the phone rings saying we’re going over time. Some times there aren’t extras during the session, not because she didn’t want to, but because I rather have just spent the session making out passionately right to the moment she walks me out of the room.

Then there are others that are complete PSE and so much fun...MPA has to be physically attractive and totally into it,...and frankly, I don’t even need to cum as long as the session is hot.

 

[northnorth]

From the MPAs whom I’ve seen and would repeat with, they all had

1. Good communication
2. Passion/sensuality
3. Open-mindedness

That said, I do prefer extras - some hobbyists don’t need the extras - to each their own, right?

 

[JB Bats]

Journey is often times better than the destination

Well said. Looking forward to our journey and possible destination!

 

[FredNurks]

I’m pretty easy to please. I’m easygoing and not too critical. What I like is eye contact, good word play, an sexual tension that explodes into passion, and some tenderness at the right time.

 

[avg guy]

Connection!!

Some, it seems, just want the experience of "Here's my money, now let me treat you like a sex slave of sorts". I don't know how to let you know that is the client you are walking into unless you've communicated before hand or he's come back as a repeat and you remember him from before.

Other than that....natural connection. In the MPA world the encounter can be considered the coles notes of meeting someone new in the "real world". Both parties are open to getting to know one another in a faster pace. But if the chemistry is not there from one of the two or both, that silver or gold rating is not going to be there from the clients point of view. If the client can't filter or except that fact and gives a shit review with out stating all the facts including no connection then he's just being an ass. Of course there are exceptions to every rule. MPA being drunk, stoned etc. Or the client having unrealistic expectations. I have been with MPA's who have FANTASTIC reviews on these boards but for me it wasn't anything special. And vice versa. It basically all comes down to connection. Extras not need apply. Couple of my gold sessions were without "extras". But they are very appreciated

 

[MNB18]

I always on my mind the moment how my fav MPA looked into my eyes before she slowly dfk me. That deep feeling was better than the pleasure from any sexual acts.

I enjoy her company and intimacy with her. Avg Guy is right - affection is based on connection.

 

[Old No. 7]

For me, it's almost always about what my expectations are going in to the session.
If my expectations are not met, it's not a good session, sub par. I have had very few sub par sessions in all my years of hobbying. Lucky bugger.
If my expectations are met, then it's a good session. Doesn't mean over the top extras or anything at all like that. Just plain and simply met my expectations.
If the session exceeds my expectations for any number of reasons, that's a great session.

There are times when I do a random, unplanned walk in with no real expectations. In a case like this, I set the bar low so as to avoid being disappointed. Works most of the time.

 

[King Arthur]

Ok, let’s be real. A good session includes a good blowjob. Enthusiastic, lots of suction, including bls or cim is a bonus. Maybe other guys have a different favourite physical act but for most guys it will be the bj. But whatever the guy’s preferred sexual activity is, do it with enthusiasm. That’s the reality about how most guys are going to enjoy a session.

Another tip is when the guy shoots his load don’t shy away from it. You don’t have to take it on you physically just don’t be that girl who starts to look grossed out and looks like she wants to get away when the guy is about to cum. I can’t really blame girls who feel grossed out but if you want the guy to really enjoy the session you have to treat the finish like it’s fun.

 

[dimensionz00]

A huge thing for me is communication communication... I am not a mind reader. If you want something, ask for it. If something isnt up to your standards, tell me. I really want to make sure whoever is in the room with me has the best experience possible, and communicating is always appreciated so I can do my best. My best sessions have always been when the client is vocal about their needs. Especially if it's your first time seeing me.

Massage going on too long and you want the flip? Tell me.
Dont even wanna do a massage? Tell me.
Getting bored and want to change things up? Tell me.

Communication is sexy af

Very good to know! I'm usually there to enjoy the different talents and see what the girls do.

I didn't know it was an option to skip the massage and go right into it.

For me, I like a massage, even if it's crappy, have some strong pressure.

Kissing is a must to be considered a gold performance and the rest I leave up to the girl.

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[Ezra69]

great thread!!!!

 

[slipslidealways]

We all know this is a fantasy, so once the lady enters the room, for me she should show that she is there for me and thinks I am the best. What I mean by that is she (even if it is well faked) she shows interest in the session and tries to help me find a way we can work together to have a sensual fun time. I like lots of light touching at the beginning to get going, kissing is great if they are into it but it does not have to be aggressive to start. I love a session that builds and does not seem like a set of moves but a flowing reaction to the other persons responses. I have gotten better at communication in the room as it seems to always really help. Some of us who are shy need a bit of coaxing and I have fortunately had some great sessions with ladies who have encouraged me to ask for what I want. What is the worst that is going to happen, they will say no, the best is they will accommodate. This does not have to mean extras, for some it does but I know for me some of my best sessions have been without extras and just a truly sensual experience where I felt the MPA was engaged and interested in making me feel the best possible.

 

[Ezra69]

+ 1 great post!!!!

 

[Squad]

I can only speak for myself, but being a guy who has been away from intimacy for a while, and the massage scene is new to me. I look for an intimate occasion (touching specifically, knowing that this is a paid fantasy moment), if that leads to other activities then I would expect to have the provider set some boundaries and the tempo. I'm also shy, thus need a provider to sense that and tease it out. That is not to say that I just lay there like a corpse and expect mind reading to occur.

Communication is a two-way street, with a "professional" leading the discussion and for me to be clear on what I'm also looking for. Of course there are some out there who know exactly what they want, know where to get it and can say that right off the bat. I'm not one of those.

The good sessions I've had involved a friendly greeting, a quick discussion to what my expectations are (usually using innuendo.) and some body language that the provider is happy to share this moment with me. The poor ones have been the ones with a poor start ("there a John in room 5!, please attend to him.")

The best session have been a great welcome, good communication as to what is expected and limits (if any), a provider that can quickly adjust the session according to the clients responses, and one that can convey a deal of intimacy that I'm looking for (touching, nuzzling, light kisses, scratching, etc.)

my 2 cents.

 

[Mr Shibari]

Alright let's bring some order back into this place. It's been a shitshow recently LOL.

I feel this is a question both MPAs and clients can answer. Note taking for all to maximize what you get out of a session. Win/win for everyone!

Gents: what are the defining factors that determine whether a session is bad, good? Silver vs gold? The WOW factor to go from Gold to Platinum?

What wins points and what loses in your books?

A girl with impeccable hygiene, fresh breath, no god damn tattoos, the ability to put it deep in the back of her throat, a true desire to push her own physical limits to achieve my complete satisfaction, manicured toes and properly moisturizer feet, do not wear heels it ruins your feet with bunions, clean showers and towels, clean walls without oil stains, not having a dude at the front desk, when I walk in all I want to see is good looking women, no food smells anywhere in the spa, I don’t want to hear the girls bitching at each other in the hallway while I’m getting a rub down, do not leave the room or interrupt my session for any reason, a love seat and a massage table in every room, a large shower in every room, lots of hangers which aren’t broken for clothes and towels, fixed shower heads not wands because it’s disgusting when you watch a girl clean out her vag with all that mess dripping down on that shower wand between her legs then I’m supposed to stand under it, do not rush me, do not tell me it’s to deep, do not give a weak massage. And that’s just half of it!

 

[Dotanuki]

Alright let's bring some order back into this place. It's been a shitshow recently LOL.

I feel this is a question both MPAs and clients can answer. Note taking for all to maximize what you get out of a session. Win/win for everyone!

Gents: what are the defining factors that determine whether a session is bad, good? Silver vs gold? The WOW factor to go from Gold to Platinum?

What wins points and what loses in your books?

A good session IMHO is probably a lot of work for an MPA. To be engaging and display a certain degree of enjoyment with a hint of sexual tension must take effort. Especially if you have 2-5 appointments depending if one works at a premiere place or a holistic spa.

Anyways, personal care and a friendly disposition is integral to a good session. A bit of play and displayed "interest" will go far. My two cents

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[imthedude]

Every girl is different, but whatever she does, she should be enthusiastic and confident about it. I have seen many wonderful MPAs who don't offer extras, who don't even kiss, but who use their words, their bodies, the very room to create an erotic atmosphere and to take you over the top. Others who have offer just about every sexual service who simply lie there and treat you as an inconvenience.

 

[lotstoplaywith]

Bad session....I quit and go soft

Good session...I have a nice orgasm

Great session....I get rock hard thinking about her on the ride home

 

[Dotanuki]

Every girl is different, but whatever she does, she should be enthusiastic and confident about it. I have seen many wonderful MPAs who don't offer extras, who don't even kiss, but who use their words, their bodies, the very room to create an erotic atmosphere and to take you over the top. Others who have offer just about every sexual service who simply lie there and treat you as an inconvenience.

Major turn off. Like them being naked should be enough. That to me is a sign of burn out or arrogance take your pick.

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