Foot Massage Ritual..?

[Brian James]

My wife makes me massage her feet everyday..infact twice everyday..once when she gets back from work, she makes me take off her shoes and then massage her feet..and secondly, when we are about to sleep, she again makes me massage her feet while she sleeps peacefully...the only observation i have is that she is very ignorant of me while i massage her feet..i.e. she chats with friends or watches tv while i do it...in general she is a very dominant person and i don't feel she considers me her equal...

 

[R. W]

"Makes you?" What if you don't? You have to sleep on the doggie bed? You don't get any for a week. Weigh your options, trade the foot rubs for remuneration. My biggest recommendation is to go to the other room and make sure you have your testicles. No one "makes" you do anything, you choose to do it, or not and suffer the consequences.

 

[jaan]

I think you should not massage her foot if she ignores you. It is OK if she is tired or not well you can do that. I suggest if she ask you to do it again then tell she has to massage your body first. Put some condition to it instead saying directly no to her.

 

[bendychic]

dont massage her feet anymore and show her that you'd basically like more appreciation. im normally againbst men taking control over everything but in your case i think its needed. be a man and put your foot down