Don't be that guy

[Qster]

The incident and individuals portrayed in this post are fictitious. No identification of actual persons should be inferred. However, if you identify with "the guy", well I wasn't talking about you.

Arrived at this well known AMP, right on time at the top of the hour. I followed an older gentleman through the front door and both of us were promptly greeted by Lady#1.

"Appointment?". Both of us together, "Yes". She looked puzzled, went and grab her phone and muttered out 4 digits, to which I responded "Yes" and showed her my phone with my booking messages. She asked the other gentleman for his number and he responded with the first 3 digits and told her the name of Lady#2, and she went "Oh, wait here a minute." She went up to one of the closed door and began to talk through the door in Chinese. Lady#2 came out and immediately recognized the older gentleman as a repeat customer. As a drama began to unfold, Lady#1 (my date) quickly escorted me into an empty room and told me to chill out for a bit while they sort this out.

I wasn't going to undress until things had settled down so I listened as the drama unfolded outside. I could hear Lady#2 told someone that he didn't have an appointment but the someone responded aggressively that he did. Lady#2 ask for his name and phone number to which he refused, aggressive he replied "I am naked and I don't have my phone, I don't remember the number used". Lady#2 told that someone that her appointment had arrived and he must leave, again, aggressively, "I have undressed and I am staying, what about the other girl." "I have an appointment too" "How long would that take?" "The rest of the night." This went on for a long time with the guy refusing to leave, eventually, I heard the front door opened, then things quieted down.

Eventually, almost 30 minutes later, Lady#2 came into the room, I pretended to be focusing on my phone. "All settled?" "Yes the young guy left" "Young guy?" "Yeah, some 20 something white guy, wouldn't give his name or phone number, had to threatened to call the cops on him" "You don't want to give him a massage" "Hate these young guys, they are rough and don't pay well, fake names, fake numbers, they are just in the way of good business, the other guy is a good customer with an appointment, bad business to not give him massage"

Since I did book Lady#2's latest appointment of the night, she did make up the missing time and more. I understand now why she is well reviewed elsewhere. What is the point of this story? Probably isn't a one but just don't be that guy who shows up and take someone else's appointment. I am sure this happens elsewhere too; I have no clue how a person can expect to get away with taking another guy's appointment.

 

[Wills_willie]

Yup, happened to me at Blue Sky. I made an appointment with Nini when I was 5 minutes away and she confirmed. As I got there a fellow went in just ahead of me. Nini asked him if he had an appointment he said yes, then she asked me and I told her I called 5 minutes ago. She looks at the other guy and questions him again. He confesses that no he didn't. She tells him to come back in a couple of hours. She apologizes to me for the hassle, and away we go. She says that happens more often than you think.

 

[Mebad2018]

It has happened to me on occasion. I always give them a fictitious name. When I get there I just show them the text. This doesn't always work because the other guy that stole the appointment is already in the shower.

 

[Randomrd]

A fella tried to swoop into my appointment at La Bella a few weeks ago. Luckily Daisy remembered me directed me into the staging room and shooed him away.

 

[Rubmegood]

Only happened to me once at XP before I was a well known regular. I think they changed their booking records to include a name and/or phone# but now I always state my name just to be sure. Never a problem again!

 

[Sun&SandMan]

A fella tried to swoop into my appointment at La Bella a few weeks ago. Luckily Daisy remembered me directed me into the staging room and shooed him away.

Yah that would never happen ...... Daisy is way to professional to let a walk-in jump in.

 

[boysgame]

The incident and individuals portrayed in this post are fictitious. No identification of actual persons should be inferred. However, if you identify with "the guy", well I wasn't talking about you.

Arrived at this well known AMP, right on time at the top of the hour. I followed an older gentleman through the front door and both of us were promptly greeted by Lady#1.

"Appointment?". Both of us together, "Yes". She looked puzzled, went and grab her phone and muttered out 4 digits, to which I responded "Yes" and showed her my phone with my booking messages. She asked the other gentleman for his number and he responded with the first 3 digits and told her the name of Lady#2, and she went "Oh, wait here a minute." She went up to one of the closed door and began to talk through the door in Chinese. Lady#2 came out and immediately recognized the older gentleman as a repeat customer. As a drama began to unfold, Lady#1 (my date) quickly escorted me into an empty room and told me to chill out for a bit while they sort this out.

I wasn't going to undress until things had settled down so I listened as the drama unfolded outside. I could hear Lady#2 told someone that he didn't have an appointment but the someone responded aggressively that he did. Lady#2 ask for his name and phone number to which he refused, aggressive he replied "I am naked and I don't have my phone, I don't remember the number used". Lady#2 told that someone that her appointment had arrived and he must leave, again, aggressively, "I have undressed and I am staying, what about the other girl." "I have an appointment too" "How long would that take?" "The rest of the night." This went on for a long time with the guy refusing to leave, eventually, I heard the front door opened, then things quieted down.

Eventually, almost 30 minutes later, Lady#2 came into the room, I pretended to be focusing on my phone. "All settled?" "Yes the young guy left" "Young guy?" "Yeah, some 20 something white guy, wouldn't give his name or phone number, had to threatened to call the cops on him" "You don't want to give him a massage" "Hate these young guys, they are rough and don't pay well, fake names, fake numbers, they are just in the way of good business, the other guy is a good customer with an appointment, bad business to not give him massage"

Since I did book Lady#2's latest appointment of the night, she did make up the missing time and more. I understand now why she is well reviewed elsewhere. What is the point of this story? Probably isn't a one but just don't be that guy who shows up and take someone else's appointment. I am sure this happens elsewhere too; I have no clue how a person can expect to get away with taking another guy's appointment.

I agree with you in some ways, but what about providers and their responsibility? They can easily verify she got the right guy who booked session or not. They will not do, they don't care. I experienced it ready a few times. What surprise me it happened in well reviewed establishement on this forum and lady who is well known. But the same time she asking not to be reviewd.

 

[bigbill]

I had the opposite happen. I went to a place where I was a regular and didn't have an appointment. I arrived at the same time as this other guy and evidently he had an appointment with my regular gal. She grabbed me and thanked me for making an appointment and apologized profusely to the other guy for double booking. I got a strong sense that she didn't like the guy and used me to bail her out. Use me all you like baby!

Because I tend to go to the same places all the time, it wouldn't be easy for me to scoop someone elses appointment. But, the flip side is they work hard to fit me in, so that's nice.

 

[boysgame]

I had the opposite happen. I went to a place where I was a regular and didn't have an appointment. I arrived at the same time as this other guy and evidently he had an appointment with my regular gal. She grabbed me and thanked me for making an appointment and apologized profusely to the other guy for double booking. I got a strong sense that she didn't like the guy and used me to bail her out. Use me all you like baby!

Because I tend to go to the same places all the time, it wouldn't be easy for me to scoop someone elses appointment. But, the flip side is they work hard to fit me in, so that's nice.

That's nice what happened to you. But what about that other guy? Who gives a shit about him. Right?
Then what about other guys come to this forum and post a jerky review about your provider?
What gonna happened after?
Are you gonna go into an argument with him on this site?
I had the same experience as you had but I was a gentleman and let the other guy get a massage and I came later. I played a fair game.

 

[bigbill]

"But what about that other guy? Who gives a shit about him. Right?"

That was her call as she seemed to be uncomfortable with the guy. If you're the guy making providers uncomfortable enough that they do what she did, well, sorry, can't help ya.