Daty With An MPA!

[Scott S]

I love going down a a woman. Pleasing gives me pleasure. I will not go down on just anyone though. I have gone down on one MP. We have known each other for a couple of years, and one day it just happened. I'm not deluded into thinking that she goes home at night and dreams about me. It's all about my fantasy.

 

[RedSheepHerder]

Having a Daty with any unknown women is a risk.
But if you narrow between an MPA & SP, i think with MPA the risk is bit lower than with SP, because MPA does not indulge in having a F.S. Clients, maybe she is just having sex with her lover or a good friend.
What do u think as far as risk is concerned with an MPA/SP.

 

[Vampyre Chan =]]

Aha! We can clearly see that you don't go in for the GFE, Joker! But in context of MPA's I can see where you're coming from...
I don't hire SPs to 'service me' - I'd get nothing out of that. But receiving a massage IS a self-indulgent activity.

Occasionally, I hire women to spend time with me in a context which permits (ok, ok, implictly offers) sexual congress - and in those cases, I ALWAYS try to ensure full & enthusiastic responses via foreplay, including oral.

For myself, I can't get an erection for a girl I can't enjoy socially, especially not in a condom! But if I have a good rapport with a beautiful lady and we harmonize intellectually or spiritually, or even subconciously, I'll enjoy the phermone-wash of her feminine musk as I do my best to make her a happy girl with my tongue.

I have always found that IF a girl is fundamentally comfortable in her role and life, she will be responsive to positive sensations... and it pays back in spades, I tells ya!

I guess that's the REAL difference between < $250/hr SPs and > $250/hr SPs... The ones who charge the higher rates tend to be happier (not just 'cuz they are better paid!) and feel more actualized by their work - they feel like they are respected professionals, rather than whores. (Don't bother to argue semantics here!) When they are feeling self-respectful and in happy, they tend to be more readily able to get into their work - and it comes across SO clearly to those of us who care.

And like I said, if a girl is enjoying what you are doing for her, and you treat her like a GF rather than a SP, she will tend to be MUCH more accomodating and satifying, in my experience.

Anyone else concur?

Philski

 

[Its her]

I think the risk is the same regardless if she is a sp or mpa.
Just my opinion though. There are always going to be risks.

 

[Midnyte]

ok. lay into me becasue i have no previous posts, or just because you don't agree with me, but... i don't understand it. You guys actually PAY money to some unknown SP or MP to DATY??? I just don't get it. When was the last time someone paid YOU so they could go down on you????

 

[CUPiiD97]

Like Daddy Long Legs said, why crap on someone just because they like to do something you don't. If you get the experince you want and I get the experience I want out of a massage, well thats great. Just don't tell me what I should or should not do (as long as my MPA is OK with it too) Don't want to DATY, fine. Do want to DATY, also fine. But Jokers comment "wanting fish for dinner" makes me think he is against DATY period, regardless of who the woman is and his relationship to her. And also makes me wonder if (in his opinion)if there is EVER a case of a dancer/MPA/SP enjoying a customers touch? Doesn't sound like it IMHO.

 

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[nikki_lav_2288]

Just the other day, but I gave her a refund because I enjoyed myself so much!

Get a life buddy! You asked for it.

 

[lexG]

When was the last time you looked in the mirror? If we all had WCP's and nice beavs we'd be making guys like ourselves pay for our physical gifts. Unfortunately for us, we're pretty disgusting to look at, thus we have to pay for all within limits beav and WCP's.

That pretty much sums it up.

 

[Dennisse]

HA! Your cynicism is well-taken - but Violet is merely a single indication of what I was suggesting - albeit one who puts my analysis into such sharp-relief!

I have plenty of experience with others of the same pay-grade and I restate my opinion.... SPs who charge for 'courtesan' class services and earn it are generally MUCH happier people, and much more INTO the sex they share with their clientelle.

Philski

 

[Rabble Rouser]

that link doesn't seem to be working for me. is the site down? lol

 

[vijay t]

Oh god,

Not ANOTHER STD / hobby thread.

Hasn't this topic been beaten to death already?

 

[Pompal 09.]

I think the risks are more measured on how safe the girl is, an sp that provides full service might be more inclined to be safer with her services and protect herself more. and if a mpa only has sex with her lover or a good friend how safe is he we dont know. it all depends on the girls no matter if they are an mpa or sp. at times i would be more worried of a girl at a club you meet because its a spur of the moment thing and you dont know how many guys she was with and if she was carefull. so you never know you could catch something anywhere. but atleast the girls in the industry tend to be more safe it there job.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Too Many Times!

 

[Jeremy]

What about the girl you pick up at a bar that you took home and went down on... yes, there's still risk, no matter what sexual activity you participate in. As far as DATY it's fairly low whether she's a civilian or a SP. Just be aware and play safe.

 

[Valdis K]

Too Many Times![/QUOTE


Rehashing previously beaten to death old disease topics is contagious.

 

[Nightnurse]

Huh?

It's risky sexual behavior and that's that.

Sure, you could pick up a girl in a bar who passes something onto you during cunnilingus, but you're foolin' yourself if you believe that the risks aren't higher in a rub 'n tug with a girl who may have several guys in a shift go down on her.

Engage if you will, but go in at least knowing what you may be in for.

 

[veelalynne]

I'm going to assume that English isn't your first language and thus dispense with attacking your intelligence.

I long ago decided that it doesn't matter if the MPA is faking it or cumming for real - the acts of my favorite MPAs make it indistinguishable.

That being said, for a woman to fake it at that level, for that long, over so many visits - puts Natalie Portman to shame.

Speaking of women I'd like to go down on...

And by the way, am I the only one who found Violet's comment "I'm sorry that you have to pay for love" more than a bit bitchy?

 

[Rachelle]

Logic and statistics lead me to this conclusion. The more men a woman is sexually active with, the greator the chances of her being in contact with and contracting a viral, bacterial, or parasitic infection that can be passed on to an unsespecting man or woman. What other person do you know of that is more sexually active, or has a greator number of sexual partners than an SP or MPA? Also, do you think that any of these girls will tell you: "Oh hun, put that extra money back in your wallet, I can't let you do that cause I didn't get a chance to shower after my last client." Duh!!! Man, some of you are truley idiots!

 

[sol]

boys our HOBBY is risky sexual behavior and that's that !