Dark side of this hobby

[Homerun001]

Good weekend hobbyists,

After a long week of work, and needing a long overdue session I ventured to boss spa after work and as I parked my car and finished up a phone call I noticed a woman outside with 2 children having a conversation with not 1 but 2 men close to the entry point of boss, she was waving her hands so I thought perhaps something bad had happened so as I approached closer the talking was actually shouting and insults, apparently she busted her husband and she was so pissed off that she was targeting men approaching the entry point with insults, and threatening to call police, media , make posts bla, bla, bla.. well this killed my whole mood for the night so made my way home and picked up some Chinese food and just chilled out but, for some reasons her pissed off voice and the 2 small children remained in my mind .. was thinking , do normal woman think we are some kinda of animals for hobbying.
Has this ever happened to anyone before ? And , how would your significant other react if they found out about your hobby?

 

[rhuarc]

Yes, most women consider us animals for hobbying. They don't know any better. They likely know someone who participates in this industry, and don't have a clue. And because they assume all such men who participate in the hobby are animals, they are shocked and appalled when they find out they know one. And it's far worse to find out the person you're married to is one of them, because not only is it a shock, it's also a betrayal.

The only person I don't feel bad for in the situation you encountered is the guy. He chose to cheat on his wife, risk the familial security of his children, and was stupid enough to get caught. The wife, the kids, you, and the other customers are innocent bystanders.

 

[johnbuyba]

that must suck.. but if you choose to hobby when you have a wife and kids i guess your open to these risks. need to take extra precaution with texts and calls not to leave a trace. must be awkward coming out of the spa to see his wife and kids in the parking lot

 

[Merlin]

They likely know someone who participates in this industry, and don't have a clue.

This could be true but I think it’s way more likely to be men IRL who know women who’ve done sex work and don’t have a clue about it. Women are way more likely than men to talk about this kind of thing among themselves. Plus I think how women react has a lot to do with who they are and who you are. There are definitely a lot of older women who are bitter for one reason or another and they will demonize anyone who participates. A lot of other women won’t think you’re an animal they’ll assume that you’re a loser or have personal problems so they might feel pity for you. Some women will be curious and think it could be fun. But even for those women the problem will be if they know you hobbied they will write you off as marriage material, if that matters to you.

 

[Mr Shibari]

Fuck this shit! There’s a reason that guy goes to the spa, his wife doesn’t want or try to fuck him. The poor guy probably works his ass off to provide for his family and just wants a little escape from the god damn monotonous lifestyle of a North American family man. He isn’t trying to fall in love he just needs a little attention once in a while. His wife should keep her mouth shut and leave him alone. Why do most marriages end in divorce. Because it’s absolutely unnatural for a man to only screw one woman his whole life. If women let their men go to the spa without shame a lot more families would stay together. I can’t believe how some people are reacting to this like he is a piece of shit.

 

[Leviathan]

LoL we have been brainwashed that manogamy/marriage is bliss with sacred oaths. Blame religion, consumerism and society . Not women or men.

 

[topo112]

I think that woman was more upset at the $$$ the guy is spending hobby ing than his cheating .

 

[TheKWguy]

You make some interesting topics...

 

[Shag]

I think that woman was more upset at the $$$ the guy is spending hobby ing than his cheating .

LOL
for the women

IT IS ALWAYS ABOUT THE MONEY

 

[freewilly416]

Before I got involved in this hobby, it looked like cheating, but now I feel otherwise.

It’s just a way to blow off steam - a break from the monotony of married life. Yes, women would never understand, but any red blooded man that can still get it up fantasizes about getting in bed with a hottie. Some of us act it out, others can by on porn.

No matter how hot your partner is, like eating the same great steak everyday gets boring. I feel for all parties involved. Married life aint easy. Married guys for the most part are not looking for love or emotional connection, just an upgrade from the left hand.

 

[Homerun001]

Before I got involved in this hobby, it looked like cheating, but now I feel otherwise.

It’s just a way to blow off steam - a break from the monotony of married life. Yes, women would never understand, but any red blooded man that can still get it up fantasizes about getting in bed with a hottie. Some of us act it out, others can by on porn.

No matter how hot your partner is, like eating the same great steak everyday gets boring. I feel for all parties involved. Married life aint easy. Married guys for the most part are not looking for love or emotional connection, just an upgrade from the left hand.

I am not married, so I dont have to worry about answering any questions to a significant other.

 

[IronHeart]

Moral of the story, visit escort agency instead of spas.

 

[Greenberg]

Hell does not know the wrath of a woman scorned!

 

[Leviathan]

It’s all of the above. It’s biological, Religion and societal. Since mankind and at its historical core, Women want safety, security, protection and aka “financial” peace of mind to procreate in a magnagomous relationship . Of course always exceptions to the rule. Women will dump you so fast if you fail in meeting the above criteria. And switch hitters ! LoL

Western Society has evolved due to the trend towards liberalism, extreme left and feminism. And has confused gender roles. “Identity politics.” Hiring Quotas based on identity vs performance. It served a valid purpose in the historical past when capitalism was ruthless. Now the world is at a cross road . Extreme capitalism and socialism.

Men have the highest suicide rates and dying at earlier and faster rate vs history. Males are dropping out of high school like flies exterminated. Birth rates are dropping precipitously. Women have been sold the “dream” Bill of Goods.

It’s evil insidious war against men by SJW.

This will lead to dangerous “Egalitarism aka Marxism. And we know throughout history this failed miserably! LoL

I think that woman was more upset at the $$$ the guy is spending hobby ing than his cheating .

 

[Leviathan]

By the way since mankind across the globe men have been fucking multiple girls/guys forever without or without significant others! LoL nothing new !

It’s normal in “most” living species! LoL

http://mentalfloss.com/article/55019/10-monogamous-animals-just-want-settle-down

 

[Robert N]

I will say All the Sides of this hobby are Dark... Though I have no plan to quit it.

 

[Kawailuvr]

Fuck this shit! There’s a reason that guy goes to the spa, his wife doesn’t want or try to fuck him. The poor guy probably works his ass off to provide for his family and just wants a little escape from the god damn monotonous lifestyle of a North American family man. He isn’t trying to fall in love he just needs a little attention once in a while. His wife should keep her mouth shut and leave him alone. Why do most marriages end in divorce. Because it’s absolutely unnatural for a man to only screw one woman his whole life. If women let their men go to the spa without shame a lot more families would stay together. I can’t believe how some people are reacting to this like he is a piece of shit.

Fuck this shit! There’s a reason that guy goes to the spa, his wife doesn’t want or try to fuck him. The poor guy probably works his ass off to provide for his family and just wants a little escape from the god damn monotonous lifestyle of a North American family man. He isn’t trying to fall in love he just needs a little attention once in a while. His wife should keep her mouth shut and leave him alone. Why do most marriages end in divorce. Because it’s absolutely unnatural for a man to only screw one woman his whole life. If women let their men go to the spa without shame a lot more families would stay together. I can’t believe how some people are reacting to this like he is a piece of shit.

Women in North America are just straight scandalous! They get married have a kid become a fat disgusting pig and than wonder why their man fucks another women ? And when he does she takes all his shit ! To have a cunt in Canada is to have a job that pays you well !! NEVER NEVER GET MARRIED TO ONE OF THESE WHORES IM CANADA

 

[luvnewpussy]

LOL
for the women

IT IS ALWAYS ABOUT THE MONEY

They will always look at it as if it's there money you are using.
Take care of ur self first..do what, makes u happy..then take care of the family . Don't know how much turns you think your going to get but This carousel ride goes around one time...enjoy it you won't make it out alive