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Hi all,
When I bump into people in town or I say hello to someone I know working in a shop or I use a service like a hairdresser, I get alot of
'oh, I've hurt my back I must come see you'
I often wonder if they are saying that cos thats what people do when you're a massage practitioner. People tend to just say stuff and never follow through. Even someone who asked me once to call her to arrange a treatment has never called me back. I'm really battling with this stuff and wonder if its best practice to just leave people to contact you when they are ready (as per Reiki principles) or politely egg them on.
For example:
I was at the hairdersser the other day (who'm Ive massaged before when I was tranining but since starting my practice, she has never come for a treatment) . Just before I leave she says to me
'oh, I've hurt my back I must come see you when I'm back from holiday.'
She was dashing off to her next client.
As I know this person fairly well, I'm quite sure that she will not get around to calling as this is how she is. And this is how we are mostly...oh, I must call this person, I must call that person. I do that sometimes when I have to book an appointment and months pass and I still havent called. We all do it.
So, can I call this person when they are back from holiday and say something like 'I thought I'd just check in with you and see how your back is (and holiday was) and see if you need to pop in for a treatment'.
I hate putting people on the spot so making that call would be weird and also am I crossing a boudnry. She never asked me to call her but at the same time calling shows I care...and yes of course I want the business.
Another quick example: I stopped into say hello to a lady in a shop I occasionally chat to. She mentions a sore back (and her husband too) and says the usual 'I must come see you'. I almost popped in the other day when I was working in town to ask her if she could take a half hour off for a little taster. Chickened out though cos I didnt want to put her on the spot. She probably dosent even have my number anymore. But I didnt want to put her on the spot so I didnt pop in.
Any thoughts on 'chasing business' are welcome.
When I bump into people in town or I say hello to someone I know working in a shop or I use a service like a hairdresser, I get alot of
'oh, I've hurt my back I must come see you'
I often wonder if they are saying that cos thats what people do when you're a massage practitioner. People tend to just say stuff and never follow through. Even someone who asked me once to call her to arrange a treatment has never called me back. I'm really battling with this stuff and wonder if its best practice to just leave people to contact you when they are ready (as per Reiki principles) or politely egg them on.
For example:
I was at the hairdersser the other day (who'm Ive massaged before when I was tranining but since starting my practice, she has never come for a treatment) . Just before I leave she says to me
'oh, I've hurt my back I must come see you when I'm back from holiday.'
She was dashing off to her next client.
As I know this person fairly well, I'm quite sure that she will not get around to calling as this is how she is. And this is how we are mostly...oh, I must call this person, I must call that person. I do that sometimes when I have to book an appointment and months pass and I still havent called. We all do it.
So, can I call this person when they are back from holiday and say something like 'I thought I'd just check in with you and see how your back is (and holiday was) and see if you need to pop in for a treatment'.
I hate putting people on the spot so making that call would be weird and also am I crossing a boudnry. She never asked me to call her but at the same time calling shows I care...and yes of course I want the business.
Another quick example: I stopped into say hello to a lady in a shop I occasionally chat to. She mentions a sore back (and her husband too) and says the usual 'I must come see you'. I almost popped in the other day when I was working in town to ask her if she could take a half hour off for a little taster. Chickened out though cos I didnt want to put her on the spot. She probably dosent even have my number anymore. But I didnt want to put her on the spot so I didnt pop in.
Any thoughts on 'chasing business' are welcome.