I would recommend Tui Body/Massage waxes - lots of threads praising them on this site!! They are paricularly good with the more hairy men, and the wax is totally organic.(wwww.tuitrading.co.uk)
They come in different blends, ie Sports and Healing, Relaxation, Orange Spice, Rose, Lavender, Mountain Forest etc etc, so something for all tastes.
I also am not an aromatherapist, but was told that as long as the oils are not blended by me, I can use pre-blends, which I do.
Karen x