Aroused while receiving massage from another man...am I gay?

[Hipster Doofus]

The misses bought me one of those dang spa gift certificates for my birthday. Now let's get one thing straight, I AIN'T into this type of crap but I went just to stop her from bitchin at me. I thought I was gonna get a hot chick to rub me down, but instead I got a dude. When he was working on my lower back I did receive an erection. I was thinking about Reba McEntire when he happened so I'm pretty sure that's why I got it. He told me to roll over but I couldn't because he would have seen my penis sticking up like a flagpole. I told him that I paid good money for this and I'd roll over when I WANTED TO ROLL OVER. He bought it, but now I am worried that I might be gay. I've been searching the yahoo answer database all morning for similar stories but haven't found squat. Am I gay?

 

[Telemachus R]

Wow. Hope your not really seriously freaking on this. I mean really. Gay is between your ears, not between your legs. And just for the record since your wife paid good money, you aught to have rolled over and gotten a happy ending. Sheesh. Talk about not getting your moneys worth....

 

[jay]

Not at all. Sensual contact is sensual contact - I've had it with female massage therapists and for brief moments I've wanted to do non massaging-things with them, even though I ordinarily like men.

Chill your beans!

 

[tongpa-nyi]

You need a lot more evidence than one erection while thinking of Reba and getting a massage. To me, the most clear indicator that you MIGHT be gay or bi is that you're asking this question. If you weren't gay, you would know it and wouldn't need to ask.

The only way you're going to find out is to be honest and open with yourself, which is extremely difficult for adults who identify themselves as straight. It could take you a long time to discover the truth. If you're truly turned on by women and can get turned on by a man only in certain circumstances then you're probably a fairly common bisexual, the type who are able to get "relief" in prison, the military, and other situations where women aren't available. It doesn't mean you have a preference for men, it just means that you're open to bisexuality as a second choice.

I wish it were easier to follow someone's process on this website but I'll never get to find out what happens, what you discover about yourself. Whatever you do learn, remember that it's all good. You belong to humanity and there's nothing better or worse about being straight, bi or gay.

 

[archnew2]

yup you are 100% gay.. ps how did you get the massage shirt on or off? Tucked in or out of your undies?

 

[Scott]

Look your a dude, thats all that need be said, someone touches you semi erotically or even just softly your going to get a wood thats just how it works, now if your sitting there thinking that your the only man who has ever got a erection during a massage, you are sadly mistaken, ill bet your masseuse got a chuckle out of it, they know how the body works, and are familiar with the signs, plus dear god how old are you its a freaking penis im sure he has seen them before, so next time just relax and try to enjoy yourself.

 

[Top Contributor]

hahahahahahaha no i don't think so. There are certain spots that you get rubbed that cause you to get a bonner just by touching them. If you didn't like the guy and don't want to get with him rubbing your back or something more i wouldn't think so.

I get a bonner when my jeans are really tight to my penis and when i wake up in the morning for no reason...it just happens.

 

[Now Now]

Silly, he could have massaged your erection too. And if you had taken it without batting an eyelid, you'd have passed the test.

 

[Clint]

Oh good Lord, you're not gay, for cryin' out loud.

You had a physical response to stimuli while you were also thinking about a very attractive woman. A good massage relaxes muscles and dilates blood vessels. Guess where a lot of blood vessels are located? You got it - your penis.

You're gay if members of the same sex stimulate your MIND, not your muscles.

 

[Nikki C]

I believe you are gay.
And I believe your wife knows you are gay, and it is for this reason
that she purchased you the spa gift certificate.

I also believe you are a Seinfeld fan.
From your name, and from this scenario.

 

[Daniel - Mr. Ripley]

lmao

hell no, that doesn't mean you are gay.

it is VERY common for men to have erections during a massage. don't even worry about it.

 

[J09]

you just reacted to the mans touch, but it doesn't mean anything.If you had Fantasy's be-four about nacked men than ur probabley bi or gay. Most of the times your first expirience most lickly in my opinion determens your sexuality and if it was a woman you probably will remain hetero for the rest of ur life.

 

[AverageJoe]

LOL.
No this does not mean you are gay. Do you remember when we were young and a warm breeze blowing the right way could get us aroused? Well, same thing sort of. You were not thinking of the guy giving you a massage, you were experiencing a sensual touch that if done correctly would get anyone aroused.

Massages are used alot for foreplay between couples. It gets the person stimulated, it dictates a sensuous environment for the right mood.
Seriously, you have nothing to worry about.

 

[Launcelot Vigée-Lebrun]

Doofus fits you well. You sound like an ignorant hick but that's about it.

 

[Humm4it]

OHHH Yeah you gay...you neeeeed to go to a Gay detox camp....