Are massages a flirting gesture?

[Bunnyluvr]

A guy who has a girfriend asked me to give him a massage the other day. So I did and he kept making all these sexual sounds like, "ooohh yeah, right there!" He told me I was really good at it. His friends were standing like right n front of us and they kept making awkward faces and saying wierd things, like i was wrong to be massaging him, like that was flirting too much.. Is this being flirtatious or was his friends over reacting?
...well i actually dont even like the guy like that, and we were in class not even alone.

 

[nao♥]

Yeah I think you were being flirty.

 

[fenwick]

if you are in a relationship ask yourself the same question would you like it if some other girl was doing that to your dude...that should clear up your answer for you if you feel there is nothing to worry about on your side then its probably nothing to do with you but i think the guy was trying to come on to you so in a way it maybe his fault for asking like he was testing you and wanted to see what you would do maybe you were being naive and you just didn't see it coming out that way

 

[Bertha]

Think HARD

 

[Precy]

if you really care your emotions as a girl/woman, then try to put yourself as the girlfriend of that same man you are massaging. What do you think will you feel if you found out that there is somebody massaging your boyfriend? You think, you will be happy? Well, I hope you reflect on it...

 

[Sierra]

yeah, it's flirtatious. it wouldn't be if he wasn't moaning... but he obviously thought it was. tell him to get it straight, and make sure his friends and his girlfriend know that you didn't mean to flirt with him.

 

[__A_YAHOO_USER__]

you can massage me ;]

 

[Eleida F]

yes that would be flirting

 

[Leah C]

yea it was a little flirtatious. Being in contact like that does seem to be giving a sign as to you like him especially if your rubbing him and don't get smitten with him though if he has a girl. Because if you do end going out with him then there's a guarantee that he'll do the same thing to you. Asking girls to give him massages and i don't think you would like that. The boy knows how to talk and be smooth but he ain't that smooth don't let him get to you

 

[smarge22]

Ummmm............ Let me See......... Uhhhh.......... YES!!!!!!

Put it htis way. If you had a boyfriend would you want some other girl rubbing on him? Girl!!! You knew the answer, you just thought somebody might agree with you and you wouldn't feel bad about trying to swipe this dude!

 

[Shelby]

he has a girlfriend
and his friends are trying to keep him outta getting in shit
i sure wouldnt apreciate a girl giving my boyfriend a massage
a massage is concidered FOREPLAY there for much more than flirting

 

[dbraunofva]

A massage is an intimate thing. You couldn't have been much more inappropriate if you had had sex with him. He was wrong to ask you, you were wrong to do it.

 

[Lady Burps Alot]

he has a girlfriend you ho

 

[Jen]

Totally flirting move! I used to do this to guys all the time...ha ha i miss those carefree days. It's an easy nonthreatening flirting move that involves touching with out being too sexual. If a guy with a g/f asks you to do this, please don't that's not appropriate go massage some single guys!

 

[mansaf]

OVER REACTING!! u were over doing it .. he has a GF ... wut a bastard !!

 

[rawr_i luv him]

you shouldn't be flirting with a guy who was a girl friend..ur friends r not over reacting..its not to flirt with that guy he is just playing with u nothing so seriuos u should stop messanging him n get a life no offence hehe

 

[Brittany]

Personally I would consider massaging to be less flirty and more intimate...maybe thats why his friends were uncomfortable.

 

[Dannnnce]

that is DEFINITELY flirty!! he asked YOU because he WANTS YOU

 

[T-Mac]

Massages are definitely a flirting gesture.

 

[sara g]

Depends, if you know him long enough, and he's considering you as his best friend, then it's not flirtatious. The sounds means you're good and he's liking it, his friends just being exagerated.