Advice Please

[cringe dragon]

At long long last I have had a phone call for a massage.

she is actually a friend who has had breast cancer but is no longer having treatment and is doing ok.

She is having regular treatments at a salon but said she would rather pay me.

I would love to do it but as usual I am paniking like mad.

Please can you give me some advice

 

[cxossisj]

Dearest most lovely Rose

YOU WILL BE FINE.
The fact that she has had bc is irrelevant in terms of you treating her if she is now clear and free of treatment so dont let that pray on your mind......you know your stuff, you are the qualified one and you can always say to your friend, look you are used to having it done in a certain way by all means try me but dont then feel you will hurt my feelings if you prefer the type you are already getting! Everybody works differently!

I am sure you will be great just take the plunge, take a deep breath beforehand and relax and enjoy the massage, if you do she will!

Hope that helps
Hugs
T

 

[Alina]

Ah, how nice to have been asked to treat this dear friend Rose! It's a lovely thing to be able to do for a friend who is in need of some TLC. Touch is so healing, and when you've been poorly and have only just got your poor body back it's a great treat to pamper yourself like this. I am sure it will help to restore her confidence and well being, and she may enjoy it all the more because she feels comfortable with you. I'm sure you will both find it a lovely experience, as it can be very special to treat friends and loved ones.

Love,

 

[michaelempeigne]

Oh thank you both for your lovely replies. You have made me a feel a whole lot better.
It's so nice to have friends like you who can boost my confidence.

Love and best wishes

 

[ReDla50]

You go girl!!

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Lesley

 

[ShanelZ]

I agree with all said above. This is a lovely opportunity to give something to your friend and help her feel good. Enjoy it and STOP WORRYING!!!!