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SwingDaddyCooch · Monday at 4:22 PM

Lalallala said:
no.. we started a restaurant. She took time off to learn the business. and then took no pay while it was starting up. Covid hit and then we went from spending 2-3 hours/day together (and we kept pretty busy the rest of the time).. to spending 18 hours/day together. We realized then that we perhaps aren't very compatible after all...

Or, the stress and financial issues possibly, that, in itself, ends a lot of marriages

Lalallala · Monday at 6:04 PM

SwingDaddyCooch said:
Or, the stress and financial issues possibly, that, in itself, ends a lot of marriages

Ahh there was stress but fortunately (or unfortunately now) my income was more than able to cover covid related shortfalls. Hah. Oh well.

SwingDaddyCooch · Monday at 8:22 PM

Lalallala said:
Ahh there was stress but fortunately (or unfortunately now) my income was more than able to cover covid related shortfalls. Hah. Oh well.

Right, thought maybe it was related to the restaurant, good buddy mine almost lost his shirt through that mess. Restaurants are funky to begin with, without tossing covid in the mix

SwingDaddyCooch · Monday at 8:24 PM

Lalallala said:
Ahh there was stress but fortunately (or unfortunately now) my income was more than able to cover covid related shortfalls. Hah. Oh well.

Either way, sorry to hear that man, women, can't live with them, and ya can't live with them

Lalallala · Monday at 8:27 PM

SwingDaddyCooch said:
Either way, sorry to hear that man, women, can't live with them, and ya can't live with them

Hah thanks. It’s ok. I understand why the family laws are the way they are. And historically women have received the short end of the stick. And we did have a lot of good times together so there’s that.

Blame could probably be shared on both sides. I am hoping that I learned from the mistakes from the past and apply it to the future though. Better communication. Set appropriate expectations and boundaries. Only making promises that we can both keep.

Should have learned this in a class in high school

peaceofmind · Monday at 8:30 PM

Lalallala said:
Hah thanks. It’s ok. I understand why the family laws are the way they are. And historically women have received the short end of the stick. And we did have a lot of good times together so there’s that.

Blame could probably be shared on both sides. I am hoping that I learned from the mistakes from the past and apply it to the future though. Better communication. Set appropriate expectations and boundaries. Only making promises that we can both keep.

Should have learned this in a class in high school

How long did you remain married for? And no kids, thankfully (I presume?) - far less complication that way.

SwingDaddyCooch · Monday at 8:43 PM

Lalallala said:
Hah thanks. It’s ok. I understand why the family laws are the way they are. And historically women have received the short end of the stick. And we did have a lot of good times together so there’s that.

Blame could probably be shared on both sides. I am hoping that I learned from the mistakes from the past and apply it to the future though. Better communication. Set appropriate expectations and boundaries. Only making promises that we can both keep.

Should have learned this in a class in high school

There are a lot of things they should add to the curriculum at school, this being one for sure

SwingDaddyCooch · Monday at 9:03 PM

peaceofmind said:
Good luck with the next phase and new chapter @Lalallala - and glad there's clarity and peace of mind after all that.

I've never been married but man, seeing yours and some other folks' stories on here I'm somehow less and less inclined to get married as the years pass. Having meaningful human relationships is the most important thing... but marriage? Seems like a path towards losing half my assets at some point .

Ahh, it's not all that bad, depends on what you want out of life, and if kids are in the cards not that you have to be married to have them.
I was married, years ago, never had kids but my career has me all over the world regularly, so it eventually it fell apart. No animosity, no payouts, just parted ways.
Would I like a partner, not sure at this point, it's definitely nice to come home to someone if you've been traveling a lot.

peaceofmind · Monday at 10:12 PM

SwingDaddyCooch said:
Ahh, it's not all that bad, depends on what you want out of life, and if kids are in the cards not that you have to be married to have them.
I was married, years ago, never had kids but my career has me all over the world regularly, so it eventually it fell apart. No animosity, no payouts, just parted ways.
Would I like a partner, not sure at this point, it's definitely nice to come home to someone if you've been traveling a lot.

There's a whole world's worth of life experiences from the folks on this thread. Wow. Learned so much

Jumpin’ Jack Flash · Monday at 10:20 PM

SwingDaddyCooch said:
Ahh, it's not all that bad, depends on what you want out of life, and if kids are in the cards not that you have to be married to have them.
I was married, years ago, never had kids but my career has me all over the world regularly, so it eventually it fell apart. No animosity, no payouts, just parted ways.
Would I like a partner, not sure at this point, it's definitely nice to come home to someone if you've been traveling a lot.

I don’t know. Airport to spa works for me

peaceofmind · Monday at 10:21 PM

Jumpin’ Jack Flash said:
I don’t know. Airport to spa works for me

That's my plan next week

. Goin on a trip.

Lalallala · 2025-01-21T03:46:52+0000

peaceofmind said:
How long did you remain married for? And no kids, thankfully (I presume?) - far less complication that way.

Oh supported her for about 18 years. Ugh.

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