I confess that I like to have sex more often ( 2 - 3 times a week) than my wife who is the very least interested (once a month) I have to keep trying to seduce her for days before she finally lets me have sex with her. I have no choice but to masturbate but i don't enjoy it and doesn't give the same satisfaction as having sex. I've constantly tried to talk to her about this but we get nowhere. I feel like visiting massage parlors and sex workers for paid sex but I know if she finds out it will be the end of our relationship. I don't know what to do 
